Bridesmaid drama

I wouldn't want people who didn't like me standing on my side on what is supposed to be the happiest day of my life. If it were me personally, I would ask them if they really want to be there due to the information that had been provided to you. Maybe give them the option to leave on their own by doing it that way. I get not wanting to have drama and re-plan, just an option I wanted to throw out there. You may find keeping them causing more stress than uninviting them. Good luck with whatever you decide to do!

I don't know the answer to your direct question, but it might be worth asking your MOH at least if everything is okay. She is your MOH so I am making the assumption that she is someone that is very close to you so you should be able to approach her and talk. As you get closer to your wedding any tension that exists may just get worse and worse, as you're around each other more frequently for pre-wedding events. Trust me, I witnessed this first hand. Now may be the best time to try to figure out what's going on.

I would confront the bridal party members who don't like you. Ask if it's true first. Then ask them why it is they don't want your friendship anymore. Maybe give them the option to attend as guests if they really don't want to be in the BP anymore.

I'm sorry this is happening to you!

Wow this situation sucks, sorry you have to deal with this! my best advice would be to talk to them about it and get to the bottom of it. i'd imagine if you chose someone to be your bridesmaid or MOH you are obviously close so discussing this shouldn't be an issue. i totally understand not wanted to add stress to your life or deal with unnecessary drama but its your wedding and i personally wouldn't want the girls i chose to stand by me there if they don't even like me... discuss it; who knows maybe its a big misunderstanding. you will never know the real truth unless you talk about it with everyone involved. and if its true and they really don't like you/ don't want to be there for you then do you honestly even want them there in the first place? good luck

I think I would want to address it all before the wedding. If it is all true, you certainly do not want these people in all of your special wedding pictures if they plan to cut ties with you.

I agree with Jill. I would ask them if they really want to be there based on the information you have - don't tell them how you found out the info. That way they have the option to leave on their own. But it sounds like to me your friendship with those 2 is probably over after the wedding if they feel that way. So, ask them if they really do have a problem with you in a face to face one on one conversation and you should be able to tell if they lie to you about it or if they are sincere. If they lie, I would boot them both out and either replace them with someone who does care and love you or move on without them.

I think you really need to have a conversation with them both, in person. If you approach it as, “hey I heard something really upsetting and want to talk it over” rather than straight up accusatory, it could help with the talk. I agree with a PP to be careful with secondhand information. You still have three months to go, and just going along with this on the most important day of your life is a bad idea. I know you want to avoid stress during planning, but do you really want to be dealing with this on the day? I strongly encourage you to confront this now, and if you need to uninvite them, so be it. I’m sure down the line you will thank yourself for keeping only your truest friends there. These are memories, and photos, that you will have forever.