Am hoping not to be the only one in this situation, yet I don’t wish anyone else the same! I guess I should start by saying our wedding was supposed to be 05/01 but due to covid we had to postpone and our new date is now 04/30.
Long story short I have 5 bridesmaids and my MOH.. they all know each other except for one who became my friend through work and doesn’t really hang out in the same crowd. My other 4 girls I’ve known since high school and even though we don’t see each other as much I’ve always considered them my closest friends. Lastly my sister is the 6th, she was originally my MOH but got pregnant and didn’t want to deal with all the stress and I completely understood so one of my other friends stepped in.
Ever since then I’ve barely heard from them. Only my sister and my friend from work have been constantly reaching out and helping with getting things back into place. I feel a little hurt because I’ve done the reaching out and sometimes I don’t even hear back. They never planned a shower or anything and they haven’t tried to be involved or help in any way even before. Other than my sister and friend from work. I feel it’s so unfair to have these 2 helping with everything and my MOH gets the title.. I know right now due to covid and guidelines it’s hard but I see them get together all the time and not invite me or reach out. I’m not sure if everyone goes through this or maybe it’s just me. It feels like maybe I considered them my best friends but they don’t considered me theirs.
Am I crazy? Or too emotional? What or how can I handle this?