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JJAF
Super October 2019

Bridesmaid drama

JJAF, on June 17, 2019 at 9:30 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 9
If one of the bridesmaids is acting immature and making fun of another bridesmaid, should I call her out for it? Or how should I handle this?

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Latest activity by Melle, on June 18, 2019 at 6:47 PM
  • Trista
    VIP September 2019
    Trista ·
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    Oh no!
    I would definitely address this. But make sure you do it privately so that your bridesmaid doesn't feel attacked.
    I hope everything works out!
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  • Cheryl
    Expert November 2020
    Cheryl ·
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    The same way they teach us in elementary school. Put the person bullying in their place.
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  • Margaret
    Dedicated June 2020
    Margaret ·
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    Hmmm, it depends on what call her out means. Just tell her you don't appreciate it. Say not only does it insult her, but it insults you and your choice. It's unkind and you don't have room for that.
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  • CDickman
    VIP September 2019
    CDickman ·
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    I agree I would hand it privately. I would tell the bully that it is not ok to treat anyone like that ever.
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  • Christina
    Dedicated July 2019
    Christina ·
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    I would absolutely call her out. You don’t have to do it in front of everyone but I were the friend being bullied I’d be upset if you didn’t stand up for me.
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  • MrsJohansson
    Expert June 2019
    MrsJohansson ·
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    I second this.

    Hope everything works out.

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  • karen
    Master October 2017
    karen ·
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    I would talk to her in private. IME, people do this because they are insecure. Try to keep it positive, that you value her as a friend, and while she may think it is teasing, it is a stressful time, and please dial it back.

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  • Jennifer
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    Jennifer ·
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    I agree with everyone here, address it in private. I would also let the bullied bridesmaid know you took care of it too, that way she knows you're in her corner!

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Do it privately.
    But also hear both sides because as you know, one may not always be correct
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