One of my Bridesmaid's is getting married in April so I went to her bachelorette party this past week. It was out of town and super expensive even though she said it would be "budget friendly". The entire weekend she was complaining about MY MOH and putting her down, I didn't want to start an argument at her party but I was highly offended. Then my BM (the bride) was telling me how high maintenance and over the top I am about my wedding because "I can't go with the flow like she can", because I'm requesting them to have hair and make up done early so we can take photos on my wedding day. This BM (the bride) was even acting like a parent to me for no reason and putting me down constantly on the last day. This is all after I paid for her dress for my wedding and offered to go in on a pool with her family for her own wedding dress. I'm now very concerned how she will act towards me and my MOH at my bachelorette party and even worse, how she will act on wedding weekend. This same bridesmaid has even mentioned to me that she might wait and arrive on wedding day so she can drive down (5 hours) with her by then husband. My gut instinct is to sit down with her and tell her exactly how I felt about her words and actions, but I know this won't go over well. I don't want to lose her friendship, but the way she was trash talking my best friend and how she was treating me has made me question a lot and I don't want this kind of behavior or feeling on my wedding weekend as I want it to be a happy time and not focused on her negativity. I'm on the very edge of removing her from my wedding party. What would y'all do?
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