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Bridesmaid Advice

Sammie, on October 4, 2020 at 3:59 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 6

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Hi, one of my bridesmaids and I have been getting distant with Covid. We’ve been texting on and off and things have been short.

I’ve tried making plans to visit her and she told me she couldn’t because of personal reasons. (I later found out she was hanging out with another friend on social media.) I wasn’t mature about it and hadn’t texted her for a few months until recently. Only to find out she deleted my number.
I want to ask her if she still wants to be my bridesmaid. But am not sure how to be cordial about it? I asked her if she wants to meet up in person, but am a bit worried about her blowing me off again. Any advice on how to handle this? I don’t want to kick her, but it’d be strange to have her in my BP if we’re not on speaking terms.

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Master April 2021
Mrs. Spring · on October 4, 2020 at 4:04 PM
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I recommend you ask her if she can meet you via zoom or facetime. If she blows you off with that then I would take it that she's no longer invested in the friendship.
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Veronica · on October 4, 2020 at 4:29 PM
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It sounds like you might want to start by apologizing for how you reacted to her hanging out with someone else. Maybe she had these plans with this other person prior to you asking to hang out and she didn't want to cancel and she also didn't want. If you want to keep your friendship, then I would work on repairing your relationship with her first before talking to her about your wedding.
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Kristen · on October 4, 2020 at 4:56 PM
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Hmmm I will say you two should talk it out. I agree with what both pp's said combining the two. I would talk to her and maybe tell her how you feel and apologize for how you reacted. Also, maybe ask her why she has been not wanting to meet up with you. Maybe your friendship is not meant to be at this point or maybe the talk will recoup it.
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Master April 2021
Michelle · on October 4, 2020 at 7:14 PM
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I agree with what others have said. You will need to reach out & talk to her but If she blows you off than I guess that’ll be your answer.
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Becky · on October 5, 2020 at 7:49 AM
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Hanging out with someone else is personal reasons, so she didn't lie to you - and then you didn't text her for months? Do you even want to be friends with her anymore?
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Beginner September 2021
· on October 5, 2020 at 12:59 PM
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If she keeps blowing you off. Send her a cute little text kindly telling her she’s no longer apart of the wedding but more than welcome to attend.
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