So I'm getting irritated that my MOH is telling me all the drama between her and my other bridesmaid...I'm really close to all of my bridesmaids and MOH. But my MOH uses me as a vent when something for the bridal shower or batchlorette party stresses her out and then in turn it stresses me out and I feel guilty.
One of my bridesmaids hasn't paid for her portion of the bridal shower (they all decided to host it) and this bridesmaid is saying she can't help at all with it now and shouldn't pay for it because of that. This bridesmaid is in college and has some homework due the day of my bridal shower and now can't stay the whole time because she has to work on her homework. She now can't participate in a lot of the batchlorette party because it's finals week. We all got together (even me the bride) and decided what day for both parties worked for everyone months in advance.
I honestly don't care if she has homework and can't fully participate at both parties because it is what it is. I feel like my MOH shouldn't involve me at all and she should work out the payment between her and this bridesmaid.
I also feel like I can't confront this bridesmaid because she is my fiancé cousin and I don't want to stir up drama with his family because word goes around quick in that family. I love his family and we get along very well I just don't want any drama with them. So I'm trying to just say chill and calm.
What should I do and has anyone else had wedding drama? Need advice on what I should do!
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