HI!
So my fiance and I are having a destination wedding in Hawaii. He has always wanted a traditional wedding with everyone he has EVER met and I always wanted the beach wedding with my immediate family. We ended up going with the Hawaii location due to extreme high costs for a venue big enough for 100 people in our home states. This Hawaii location only allows up to 40 people, I kept my list short to 12 people (family only) and I let him use the rest. Anyways, it has come up a few times that he really wants his best man to be up there. I do not have a maid of honor. I have my sister coming but we really are not that close. I just did't really think we would have a disagreement about this. I have recommended that we do a weekend with our friends separately before the wedding to celebrate on our own (like a bachelor/bachelorette parties). I did say he could have his BM up there and I don't have a BOH, but he does't want that either. He still wants his best man to be up there as well as my sister. HELP. I need some opinions?