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Just Said Yes May 2017

Bride with groom to pick out tux

Alexis, on January 21, 2017 at 11:55 PM

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I want to go with my fiancé to have input on his tux but he doesn't want me to go. Is he right am I not supposed to go and have a say?

I want to go with my fiancé to have input on his tux but he doesn't want me to go. Is he right am I not supposed to go and have a say?

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  • Miami2NorthernVA
    Master November 2017
    Miami2NorthernVA ·
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    I would say it is fine if he doesn't want you to go. My FH doesn't know squat about clothes so he would never pick out an outfit without me there.

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  • Mrs. Knolle
    Master July 2016
    Mrs. Knolle ·
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    We went together. My husband has absolutely zero fashion sense. Who knows what he would have ended up in had I not been there.

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  • Meagen
    VIP October 2017
    Meagen ·
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    We are going together.

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  • Samantha
    Devoted July 2017
    Samantha ·
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    We went together. I trust him to pick one out, but I was the one asking questions and giving details to the salesperson, so he kind of needed me there.

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  • Sam
    VIP October 2016
    Sam ·
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    Baahaha, my man was a total "nerdball" too and didn't want me to see either, he went with his and my dad.

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  • BeautifulQueen2b
    Expert March 2017
    BeautifulQueen2b ·
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    We went together

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  • Susan
    Master March 2015
    Susan ·
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    I went with hubs and the GM. I wanted the gray to match the navy dresses.

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  • AKCouple
    Super August 2017
    AKCouple ·
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    I hope my FH wants to go without me. I think the guys should go with the groomsmen and fathers. I guess there would be an exception if you're the one doing all the work on the color schemes and everything, but in my case a classic black tux shouldn't be too hard.

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  • Rebecca
    Super September 2017
    Rebecca ·
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    My FH and I are going together. I want to make sure he gets he right color. Lol!

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  • Christinanyc
    Master December 2016
    Christinanyc ·
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    We went together

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  • Erin Wood
    Master July 2017
    Erin Wood ·
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    Just curious how your FH's got dressed before they met you?? I'm sure most men can figure out what they look good in. I guarantee they don't need you add much as you think they do. @OP trust your FH. I'm sure he'll be fine and look very handsome on your day.

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  • Emma
    Master May 2017
    Emma ·
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    We went together, but I think it's up to your FH.

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  • GoingBALDwin!!!!!
    Master April 2017
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    We are going together. I know better. Lol. He would end up picking out something crazy and funny.


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  • FutureMrsMonty
    Super November 2017
    FutureMrsMonty ·
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    I'm not going with him. He's just wearing a black suit with a white shirt. I personally don't care to go so I'm glad he hasn't asked me to.

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  • Shelby
    Dedicated January 2019
    Shelby ·
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    I work at a tuxedo rental place and a lot of the time the future bride will come so she can help pick it out and help match with the bridesmaids! I see some guys by themselves picking it out and everything goes great, then there are times I see a guy come in by himself then have to come back and change things because she didn't like the color choices or the tux. So it all depends on you two to decide!

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  • weddingbee
    Super August 2017
    weddingbee ·
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    We are going together with our best man (his brother). FH would be lost without us and requested we join him Smiley smile

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  • A
    Savvy June 2017
    APlusLove ·
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    I went with him because none of the GMs live in our area and he wanted someone to bounce things off of. He picked the style and I made sure the color was right and gave him my opinion on what looked best on him.

    He's pretty opinionated on suits so I went in with the assumption that I was only there to tell him what he picked out was the best choice.

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  • Linda
    Expert April 2017
    Linda ·
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    He wanted to me to go with him. He is between 2 different suits. I won't know the final choice till I see him on our wedding day.

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  • LuckyLewis'
    Super July 2017
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    We're going together

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  • OMW
    Master August 2013
    OMW ·
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    I don't think a bride HAS to have a say in what he wears - unless he gets a say in her dress.

    I went with mine because he asked. I didn't want to go, and I kept my mouth shut unless he asked my opinion (which, when he did, it was on the color of the shirt since he knew my dress was ivory). I wanted him to wear what he wanted.

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