Skip to main content

Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

Ariel
Dedicated August 2021

Bride standing on the right side?

Ariel, on June 30, 2021 at 1:37 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 17

Hi everyone, just wanted everyone's opinion on this! So our wedding is August 23rd and I'm debating having myself on the right instead of the groom because I don't like the right side of my face and I'll be wearing an orchid hairpin on my left ear and I want that to show in photos. Neither of our families are very religious and my fiancé doesn't really care either way as long as he gets married lol.

Would love to hear your opinions!

17 Comments

Latest activity by Mrs. Phillips21, on July 9, 2021 at 9:28 PM
  • Samantha
    VIP October 2022
    Samantha ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    You should do it, it sounds like you'd feel more comfortable that way, wedding with special touches like this are lovely!

    • Reply
  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    If your fiancé doesn't care then I say go for it! I don't see a problem with it at all.

    • Reply
  • H
    Master July 2019
    Hannah Online ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Go for it. In Jewish weddings, it is actually customary to stand on the right side. Honestly, it doesn't really matter unless there is some specific tradition that is important for you, which doesn't appear to be the case. I would just let the officiant know the plan so they aren't confused lol.
    • Reply
  • SLY
    Master January 2022
    SLY ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    If both of you don't have a problem with it, then I don't see why you can't do it! Most guests won't notice that little change anyways!

    • Reply
  • C
    Super July 2020
    Cool ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    I did this! I had no idea there was a right or wrong side and no one said otherwise.
    • Reply
  • Nicole
    Master September 2020
    Nicole ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I did this for the exact same reason as you (prefer the left side of my face). It was a total non-issue. Traditionally, the only reason men stand on the right is because it leaves their sword free should they have needed to grab it to defend the bride. While this is not the case any longer, the tradition of men on the right and women on the left still is followed. I loved how my pictures turned out by standing on the right, so I say go for it!

    • Reply
  • Karla
    Super February 2020
    Karla ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    I stood on the right side and had my parents sit on the left side. Vice versus obviously for my husband.


    A great tip my venue coordinator gave me was to stand on the opposite side of where your parents are sitting since they most likely would want to be looking at your face and not the back of your head!
    • Reply
  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    I think it’s totally fine as long as you and your fiancé are good with it.
    • Reply
  • Rabreena
    Expert October 2021
    Rabreena ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    This is what we plan on doing, even though my parents are sitting on the left and his Mom on the right. We decided for us to stand and them to sit this way so my parents will be able to see my face instead of the back of my head, same with his Mom.

    • Reply
  • Cassandra
    Dedicated October 2021
    Cassandra ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    I stood on the right because my husband kept getting it backwards in his head and was the one to tell everyone where to stand for our minimony. I had to hold back laughing as I am the dyslexic one. I think he got confused because his three sisters all got married before him so he just got use to being on the left. No one has said anything.
    • Reply
  • Kari
    Master May 2020
    Kari ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I think gone are the days where a person of a certain gender stands on a specific side and guests sit on the "side" of the person in the couple they are closest to. Stand on whichever side works for you.

    I stood on the right side for both of our ceremonies (Covid elopement and wedding celebration) but not because I planned to, just because it ended up that way. I guess it did work a little better with where my hair part is, but it wasn't a big deal to me either way. Do whichever you are more comfortable with!

    • Reply
  • Rachel
    Beginner March 2022
    Rachel ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I didn't even realize there were traditional sides for bride and groom, so I say go for it!

    • Reply
  • Mcskipper
    Master July 2018
    Mcskipper ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    I never knew there was a side thing until reading on here well after my wedding, hah. It wasn’t a thing we gave any thought or care to. Stand where you prefer !
    • Reply
  • Lauren
    Savvy July 2021
    Lauren ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Stand on the right girl! That's your good side! Done.

    • Reply
  • Jackie
    Just Said Yes August 2021
    Jackie ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    Same here 😂 that’s why this caught my attention!
    • Reply
  • anna
    Devoted October 2019
    anna ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I've been to several weddings where they did this! I don't think anyone even thinks twice about it!

    • Reply
  • Mrs. Phillips21
    Dedicated October 2021
    Mrs. Phillips21 ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I love the non traditional! My FH and I are switching sides for our wedding too. We don't have your typical aisle; I'll be entering down a large stone staircase off to the right. It was easier for us, and made the most sense for us to be on opposite sides from what tradition shows. Also, we like this for our parents sake too. They raised us and I'm sure they'd love to see our faces and reactions during the ceremony rather than the back of our heads. By switching sides, we allow them this Smiley smile

    • Reply

You voted for . Add a comment 👇

×

Related articles

WeddingWire celebrates love ...and so does everyone on our site! Learn more

Groups

WeddingWire article topics