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Caitlin
Devoted May 2021

Bride/ Mother of bride dance

Caitlin, on November 22, 2020 at 11:33 AM Posted in Wedding Reception 1 12
Okay, its a bit weird but I plan to dance with my mom instead of my dad. I like Mama's Song by Carrie Underwood alot. I seen someone dance to You are my sunshine but i might want to do both songs like first you are my sunshine then mamas song. I dont know how to dance with her ha. My husband says it will look weird and awkward. I think it will nice. Opinions??



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Latest activity by Alyssa, on June 11, 2021 at 10:34 AM
  • Stacey
    Super May 2021
    Stacey ·
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    I don’t think it is weird or awkward at all! As a guest I would find it very sweet and endearing. Plus I bet your mom will be very touched. 😊

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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    I disagree with your FH. It's not weird nor awkward.
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  • Molly
    Devoted October 2020
    Molly ·
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    I don’t have a relationship with my dad and my mom raised me so I did a mother daughter dance. We danced to “days like this” by van Morrison. I don’t think it’s weird at all 😊
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  • Michelle
    Master April 2021
    Michelle ·
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    Definitely not weird or awkward. My daughter just got married & I walked her. The ceremony was in my sister’s backyard so there was no dancing.
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  • B
    VIP July 2017
    Becky ·
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    It's not at all weird to dance with your mom and either of those songs would be appropriate - perhaps you could let your mom choose? You don't want to do both as you'll start losing people's attention.

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  • Kari
    Master May 2020
    Kari ·
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    You should totally dance with your mom. I'd pick one song (or maybe have your mom choose). The parent-child dances aren't very entertaining to guests, so any more than two songs dedicated to that (one for you and your parent, one FH and his parent) would be too much.

    My dad died when I was in college, so the plan at our wedding was do to a single parent-child dance where I danced with my mom and my husband danced with his mom at the same time to the same song. That way it didn't feel so bad that my dad wasn't there (father-daughter dances at weddings generally make me feel bad and cry sad tears), but my FMIL still got that experience with her son, and we only bored our guests for three or four minutes instead of ten!

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  • Caitlin
    Devoted May 2021
    Caitlin ·
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    Yeah, i think i might just do mamas song. Sunshine is nice but id only dance to it for like the main verse
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  • SLY
    Master January 2022
    SLY ·
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    Not weird at all! My mom is giving me away and we're having a mother daughter dance!

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  • Krystyna
    Dedicated October 2021
    Krystyna ·
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    I don't think it is weird at all, it is actually sweet! I LOVE this song!! I actually plan on doing something non traditional such as singing this song and having my FH and my mother dance to it. I feel it is the perfect song for my mom and I and I would love her to dance with my FH to it.

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  • E
    Expert August 2023
    Elly ·
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    I am completely on board with dancing with your mom. I think it is a sweet gesture.

    However, a lot of people lose sight that the song, "You Are My Sunshine" is actually a man lamenting that his love broke up with him, and he wants her back.

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  • Kari
    Master May 2020
    Kari ·
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    I'm dancing with my mom.

    My dad passed when I was in college, and father-daughter dances at weddings are always really hard for me. We are planning on combining the father-daughter and mother-dance dances into a single parent child dance, with my dancing with my mom, my husband dancing with his mom, and (possibly) even having my husband's sister join us with their dad at the end.

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  • Alyssa
    Just Said Yes June 2021
    Alyssa ·
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    I have debated for months and months about how I was going to get passed the fact that my father would not be at my wedding and I would not have anyone to dance with. My dad passed away about 4 years ago. For the longest time, I simply threw out the Mother/son dance and father/ daughter dance all together. As we get closer to our wedding day I feel guilty taking away that moment from my FMIL and my FH, so I have created a time for me and my mom to dance together at our wedding and a time for the mother/ son dance. This way, I think both mothers will be extremely happy and spotlighted.

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