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FutureMrsB
Savvy August 2018

Bride & Groom speaking at wedding?

FutureMrsB, on June 9, 2018 at 10:54 PM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 14

I have a few questions for you guys about toasts/speeches at your wedding reception. Who is all speaking & how much time are you allocating for your speeches? Are all of the speeches happening before you serve dinner? Are any bride or grooms speaking during the reception/saying thank you to all of the guests? TIA for any and all input about how you guys did/are doing your reception Smiley smile

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Latest activity by MrsD, on June 11, 2018 at 1:44 PM
  • amandaaok
    VIP June 2018
    amandaaok ·
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    My FH is going to give a speech "to those we wish could be here" with the wine he custom blended and named after the women in his family...then a 1 minute slideshow of pictures will play that has pics of my grandparents and his parents...that is what we are doing instead of a table with pics or empty chairs etc..its our way to include them.
    Otherwise, we have no planned speeches.
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  • Nora
    Expert July 2019
    Nora ·
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    I think I’ll ask my wedding party and see if anyone really wants to speak (including parents), but thinking it’ll just be us thanking everyone for coming etc! I do want to say something and want to give like 5 min max to a few others if they want as well!
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  • earias
    Champion December 2017
    earias ·
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    It's usually customary for either the bride or groom to thank everyone for coming. I gave a welcome toast thanking everyone for coming on behalf of the groom and me at the beginning of dinner. It was 2-3 minutes. Then as dinner was wrapping up my bridesmaid gave a toast on behalf of the wedding party. Her toast was probably about 2 minutes. It's best to limit the number of people speaking as well as keeping the time short so guests don't get too bored.
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  • ThePeoplesBride
    VIP October 2020
    ThePeoplesBride ·
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    Following! I'm on the fence about toasts. Do they come before dinner? After dinner but before dancing?
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  • Tara
    Master September 2018
    Tara ·
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    We as bride and groom with do a quick thank you speech (hes good at public speaking so ill stand with him while he speaks) so far i think thats it
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  • shortkitty
    Beginner June 2018
    shortkitty ·
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    I was just Googling some example bride & groom speeches lol.

    I think all we're having for other people is a toast/speech from FH's dad and one of my bridesmen. After that we're going to do a short thank you speech. I think both of us will stand up, but only FH will really talk because I am just too shy for that.

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  • M
    Savvy October 2018
    Mindy ·
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    We aren't spreeching. Were walking around and thanking everyone for sharing our special day with us. We'd rather spend the time doing that then rehearsed speeches.
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  • D
    Expert December 2018
    Debbie ·
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    My parents want to give a speech, my FHs parents probablyvwont, ir wont say much if they did. My MOH will probably give a speech, the best man is too shy to be comfortable with it. And my FH and I will say thank you to the guests and those that have helped along the way, or travelled to come to the wedding. We will start these during dinner, ir soon after so people are not waiting on their meals and becoming uncomfortable. My parents gave speeches for my 21st party, and they were hilarious. I expect them to do the same for the wedding. So if they are a little bit longer that a quick toast, I know people will still be entertained by it. It certainly can't be anymore awkward than my future cousins wedding last year, when his father who had divorced the cousins Mum, started talking about the tree of life and how the branches of friends and family are important etc (so far very nice speech), but there are times when some of these branches need to be pruned.. Awkward, but more so as that part lasted 10 mins.
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  • hannahdee
    Super June 2018
    hannahdee ·
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    My dad is blessing the food and then MOH/BM are sating a speech or toast. No one else is speaking, we plan to say a thank you speech at the rehearsal
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  • earias
    Champion December 2017
    earias ·
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    We did both. Table visits or a receiving line are done in addition to publicly thanking everyone for coming.
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  • Rea
    Devoted November 2017
    Rea ·
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    We had only our bestman to do a toast with his wife by his side and she was my moh. Then I did a heartfelt thank/toast to everyone. I'm not much on public speaking (but I do church announcements at my church) so at the last min typed up something from the heart that spoke from dh and I hearts. But It was also hilarious because I wear glasses and I didn't wear them that day due to my makeup. So I had to hold the paper at arms length...fortunately it was in a huge font. Also Fortunately majority of guest knew I'm the church announcer and chuckled at my attempt to read without my second eyes but my speech made all feel warm and fuzzy and only lasted about 1 min and everyone stood and gave us a standing ovation. (Yeah my typed note was that touching) Our wedding was a Wednesday evening at our church with 100+ in attendance. Our parents are deceased long ago and we are a mature couple (56&66) so we didn't need that many toast. The two toast were perfect for us.
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  • A
    Expert October 2018
    Alison ·
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    We aren’t having a best man or maid of honor, so we aren’t having anyone do a speech. Instead, the two of us are going to say a few words prior to dinner.
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    We did a welcome speech...as pirates!

    Small DW, no wedding party. We created a Pirates of the Caribbean inspired reception. After our ceremony, we escorted our surprised guests into the wine cave for cocktail hour, then slipped out to change into our pirate outfits. When we returned the guests were pounding on the dining table, we marched in, and gave a welcome speech in French/English (my DH learned some French for my adoptive family from France who spoke no English). Our speech was basically how we ransacked a ship and were here to celebrate and drink.

    At the end of our speech, we were interrupted by Capt'n Jack (DH's BFF). Guests went crazy. He asked for a guest's drink, downed it, the accordionist played, guests danced. We were too far over-budget to get a videographer but I wish we had one just for our welcome speech! Hilarious.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    We have 3 speeches, the best man, maid of honor, and my father. We are giving them 15 minutes for all 3. We are doing it after everyone has sat down with their meals (or at least their plated salads). My fiance will say a thank you too probably.

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