Bride & Groom changed wedding to different country..

Thank you for your response, I should have stated that it was already out of the country, but due to a natural disaster two weeks from their wedding date, the bride and groom changed the destination to another country 12 days before their wedding.

Thank you! This is helpful!

I honestly don't know how they can expect any of their guests to change their plans on such short notice. This would be a huge cost burden to everyone involved. I think you just need to be honest with her that you can't afford to attend the wedding at the new location. She needs to be understanding because it's not like you had much notice.

I'm agreeing with Alisha since you are not making no issues about their decisions nor are you asking anything from them. It also is good that you offer continuing interest. If they offer help it is their concept, not your demand. But be ready to hold to any continuing concerns if they still create too much of a burden.

It is sad that various wedding plans have been interrupted by storms in recent years.

I think if they made that decision they have to accept the reality that people's rsvps will adjust. Sorry that happened but everyone has to do what is best for them

That’s a really tough spot, but it’s also not your fault. Changing the wedding to another country that close to the date comes with the reality that not everyone can afford it. I’d be honest and kind — let her know you truly want to be there, but due to unexpected financial issues, it’s just not possible anymore. Emphasize that this doesn’t change how much you care about her or support her marriage. A good friend may be disappointed, but she should understand that this was out of your control.