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sophie
Dedicated June 2021

Bridals?

sophie, on September 13, 2020 at 5:42 PM Posted in Planning 0 17

To have bridals or to not have bridals, that is the question. FH and I have picked our photographer but in order to officially reserve her time with us, we have to pick a package. the only important difference between the two is bridal portraits. I'm not particularly keen on them- I always feel so awkward in pictures on my own and I wouldn't actually have anything to do with them since I'd much rather put up photos of FH and me together or of the wedding. However, FH reminded me that I deserve to feel beautiful and special on our big day. I still don't think it's worth the extra money, but I'm hesitant to make a firm decision. Any thoughts?

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Latest activity by Amanda, on September 16, 2020 at 9:57 PM
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    Master October 2022
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    Does she offer bridal portraits only or can you exchange them for engagement pictures with fiance? You should feel comfortable while doing a get to know you session with her and bridal pictures aren't your thing, make sure she is aware. Don't ever feel pressured into what you aren't comfortable with.
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  • sophie
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    The bridal portraits are included in one package and not in the other, so if i don’t want to do them, i just pick the package without them. we’ve taken engagement pics already! i just don’t know if it’s something i might regret not having even though i don’t think it’s worth the extra cost. i’m mostly wondering what brides who did bridals loved about them or if brides who skipped them regretted it.
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    I skipped them
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  • Jai
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    I didn't do them but I did do a boudoir shoot
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  • Mrs. Spring
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    If it's included in your package pricing then I recommend to get a few shots by yourself.
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  • VIP August 2020
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    I didn't do them. They're pretty uncommon in my area, so it didn't occur to me to have them taken, but even if I'd thought of it, I don't think I would've had them done. I'm similar to you in that I would rather have pictures with both of us together. We recently got our photos back and there are actually several pictures of me alone anyway. I'm just kind of swirling my dress around, so I feel like we ended up with some of the photos I would've gotten from a bridal shoot, but I was definitely more comfortable than I would've been in those because they were taken after our portraits and, while I'm alone in the photos, I wasn't actually alone at the time.
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    I think the question is what will you do with the pictures? Will you really hang up a picture of just you? (When you will have great ones of you both or with family/friends). If taking pictures alone is already uncomfortable, then it is unlikely the specialness of the shoot will overpower your unease (I know it wouldn’t for me!). If the only purpose is to make you feel special, there are other ways to do that which are likely cheaper and more practical.
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  • sophie
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    This is exactly the response i was looking for!!!!!!!!! thank you so much!!!!!!

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  • sophie
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    Yeah, that's what i was thinking. i really won't do anything with them, so i don't see the point. thank you!!!!

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  • sophie
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    I think i'll have some shots of me by myself just naturally and i don't particularly want posed ones, so i think i'm gonna go with the more basic package.

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  • Mrs. Spring
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    Okay seems like you've made your mind up already....
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  • sophie
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    I was already leaning that way, and the responses here just helped confirm what i was already thinking ☺️ thanks for your help!
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    I didn't have bridal portraits, and I don't regret it. there are a ton of solo shots of me on our actual wedding day, which I feel like would have been the exact same as bridal portraits. I didn't particularly want to put my dress on prior to the wedding and get my hair, makeup, and a bouquet made just for bridal portraits. it's a pretty common thing in my area for the bride to display her bridal portrait at the wedding, but I just didn't care haha

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  • sophie
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    Omg whaaaaat?!? i can’t imagine having a bridal portrait on display at the wedding even if i did take them. like, if you want to admire the bride, i’m right here! i also totally forgot about the hassle of getting ready twice, which further solidifies my “no” decision. i’m pretty confident that i’ll be perfectly happy with whatever shots of me we get on the wedding day! plus, then i’ll have that just married glow!! thank you!!!
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  • Amanda
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    Our package included bridal portraits and I absolutely loved them! Not only do you have lovely photos, it’s your chance to get a preview of your “look” for wedding day. Hair, makeup, getting comfortable walking around in your heels and wedding dress. I do recommend bring flats too, your feet will thank you later!
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  • sophie
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    Hi Amanda! I actually ended up going with the package that didn’t have bridals but I do appreciate your input! Thanks so much! I’m sure your bridals were beautiful ☺️
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  • Amanda
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    Oh ok. :-) Glad to help! Enjoy every minute... wedding days are simply the best!
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