Since I am a first time BRIDE and this is pretty much all new to me since i havent been to a real wedding since i was a teenager lol. Anywho I am getting married at the end of OCTOBER sooooooo when would be a good time for a BRIDAL SHOWER?? I dont want to have it too soon but not to late either ughhhhhh. And as for the BRIDAL SHOWER DRESS......should I just go with the traditional white dress? Im not sure what the the decor is going to look like since my bridesmaids are setting and arranging that part. might just ask them that lol They did ask me about a good time and month for me and im honestly not sure because I dont know about that stuff lol