So my MOH is my cousin. We are closer than I am with any of my siblings. We are 11 days apart and have been inseparable our entire lives. Her wedding was 3 weeks ago, her shower was 2 weeks before that. She lives in Florida, I am in Georgia. I made the trip down for both, put myself up in hotels, paid for everything, re arranged all my plans so that I could arrive days early so that she would not have to worry about anything being done, made sure she didn't have to lift a finger for anything! I had no intention of having any type of showers, bach parties etc but she insisted on throwing us a shower. Fine! The shower is next weekend and literally nothing has been planned other than all of the things she has asked me to do for it. I don't mind as I am definitely more creative and crafty as she is but she is only planning on coming up from Florida the night before and staying with her dad which is almost 2 hours away from the venue and she wont be getting any of the food or decorations until the morning of. She isn't planning on heading this way until 9 am. We get the venue at noon to start setting up and the shower starts at 1. There is absolutely no way she will be at the venue with everything in hand by 12 and even by 1 will be pushing it. This is exactly why I didn't want a shower or any help planning the wedding. No one is as excited about these things like I am and I get that.
I am prepared to have no decorations and to order pizza once people start arriving. I am really trying not to stress or be grouchy so I am letting her handle it like she keeps telling me but I am very worried that all of these people will be walking into an empty venue with no food! Jesus take the wheel!
