I didnt really have my bridal shower accounted for. A friend of my FI family offered to throw it for me. I talked to my mother about it and she said no, and that she and my sisters would throw it. I know this is not perfect ettiquette but my mom wants to do it and my mom does not know FI family friend. I then told FIs family friend that my mother would like to throw it, that is was a nice gesture etc. She seemed to get upset about it, and shocked at this.
She suggested having two showers and and i told her that i Really only wanted one bridal shower....I just dont want to spilt up my guests..or ask for more presents. The wedding is only for about 120 people.
I just don't know if I was rude. I wish I could think if something else for her to do. But at this point I think her feelings are hurt either way. Maybe there is another preparty she could have that has no gifts involved. I know some people have four bridal showers. But honestly, I don't want another party. Am I just ungrateful?
