So my older sister is getting married February 2020 and we (the bridal party) are planning it out the bridal shower as well as the bachelorette party. We are both nerds and she loves fantasy books/movies like Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, etc. but also other properties such as Disney, Avatar: The Last Airbender, etc. I thought of just overall accumulated the fantasy properties (kinda have a LOTR/HP fantasy themed bridal party). However other people think that it should fit to the wedding agenda (make it all nice and fancy). Or just have the nerd aspects as accents. We are wearing Harry Potter themed t-shirts "It's MimOsa not MimosA" and there is a banner that we are thinking of getting "From Muggle to Mrs" What do you think that we should do? Did any of you guys (married or getting married soon) have themed bridal showers? Or did any of you guys have a just a regular, nice bridal shower?