Bridal Shower Thank You Etiquette..?

I would send them now and send one to everyone. If there was a group gift make sure to send a thank you to each person that was included on the card. If there were guests that came but didn't give a gift, I would still send them a thank you card saying, "Thank you for coming to my shower! It was great celebrating our upcoming wedding with you! I look forward to seeing you at the wedding!" For gifts I would say, "Thank you for coming to my shower! It was great celebrating with you! Thank you so much for the [ex: towel set]. My bathroom will finally look complete! I look forward to seeing you at the wedding." I would honestly say the same thing for money or a gift card (don't specify the amount they gave you) and tell them how you plan on using it [ex: saving for honeymoon or house, furniture, etc]. But definitely don't wait until the wedding! I always try to send a thank you card out before I even use the gift so I know it gets done. I hope this helps! :-)

Separate thank yous for the shower.

I would address thank you notes based on how people signed the card. If guests are living in the same household one card is sufficient, if guests live in separate households, but gave you a joint gift, then a card goes out to each.

Guests spent the money to buy you gift and took time out of their lives to come to your shower. Get the thank yous in the mail ASAP.

Thank you ladies! I'll be heading to the store tonight (to purchase gifts for my nieces birthday party tomorrow) and I will pick up thank you cards as well!!