Due to recent financial hardship, my fiance and I have decided to have a micro wedding with just immediate family (15 guests). I was reading that you should never invite anyone to a bridal shower if they aren't invited to the wedding. Which makes sense to me, but my fiances' future sister in law is a spoiled brat and gets a tropical destination wedding paid for by her family. Obviously only like 10 people can afford to go, but since she invited us and many others she gets to have a bridal shower even though most people there won't be able to attend the wedding. She has a brand new car, gets student loans paid for, and will be getting help to pay for a nice house for them to live in. While we are struggling to live and can't afford a vacuum! I understand some people are privileged, but don't you agree this shower thing is totally unfair? I would have loved to invite all my friends and family, but I just can't. How is it that she gets to be showered in gifts by 50 people because she "invited" them, knowing they can't afford to come to the wedding, but if I had a shower it would be rude?
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