Bridal Shower planning

Sounds like my FMIL. We have a pretty good relationship overall/in general, but when it came to wedding stuff, she was a nightmare. I'm so happy I am pretty much done with planning and so close to the actual day just because I am tired of the drama with her lol. Not sure I really have any good advice, I just tried to only include her in stuff that I didn't really care about because if I included her in stuff that was important to me, she would disagree with everything I liked/chose anyway and just make it difficult. I limited wedding conversations with her and tried to just keep things between me and my FH. Not sure this would work in your situation since she is hosting the shower but if it were I would probably just asked the step mother to plan it since she seems more easy going.

My FMIL is the same way. She has been a headache since day one. We have a pretty good relationship and I’m trying to keep it that way so I have completely stopped talking about wedding stuff with her. I have one more week and she just booking her hotel. I told my FH from now until next Saturday he’s on his own with her lol

Hey Tamera! I'm sorry that you are finding things difficult with your FMIL and she is having negative reactions to your input with the shower.

It's great that you have your future stepmother in law to support you with your suggestions. I know everyone has different opinions about how things should be done but there is no need for a rude response. If she has no interest in planning your shower then she has the option to take a step back and simply attend as a guest, especially if your future stepmother in law is hosting it in her home.