On the other hand, my future mother-in-law and future step mother-in-law have asked what I want and what my ideas are. I sat down and thought of some ideas and got some inspiration pictures, venue ideas, etc. and texted them. My future MIL responded very negatively and rudely about the venue location and nothing about my ideas for the theme. My step MIL offered to host it at her house and sounded very excited to start planning.
I just feel like my fiance's actual mother is not very interested in helping, but is willing to give her opinion and make comments on the "correct way" things are "supposed to be". My step MIL is always easier to talk with and has a more positive, easy-going attitude.Is anyone else having issues with future in-laws? Do other people have step-parent situations?