Wear anything attractive on you. No need for white. I know it has been a recent fad to wear whitefor lots of things. They show it on tv. But it makes me laugh when I look at some recent brides, friends and family of mine, and see the first nice dress up pictures in years. Julie in a white dress at her engagement, Julie in a white dress at her first shower, Julie in a white dress at her second shower, Julie in white at her bach dinner, Julie in white at the rehearsal dinner,, and boring boring, in white at the main event. Especially since a lot of people do not look great in white. Go for something activity appropriate, in a color?