Bridal party….

Not at all. Many siblings are not included in the wedding party because the couples are not close enough to pick them.

View Quoted Comment Ok cause I really want ppl that are really supportive and not just one sided. Thank you

Depends on how close y’all are…Honestly it’s a hard question to ask yourself, but that’s the only way I could decide. My god sisters and I are much close than my biological sisters, so I asked them but my BS understood. I have 3 out of my 5 siblings in our wedding, so remember it’s your day and do what you want!

View Quoted Comment Thank you! It’s just my sister isn’t wholeheartedly supportive of my relationship and it’s a sense of jealousy. So I don’t want any negativity on my day so I think I’m just going to omit her from the wedding she can still be invited that way she can come if she wants and if she doesn’t she doesn’t have to the show will still go on!

View Quoted Comment I completely understand! I’ve had in-law problems since I started dating my FH at 15, because they were jealous…Thankfully they realized we’re getting married in a month and have finally given up, but it’s definitely exhausting. It’s your day, so do what you want!

I wasn't in my sister's wedding party and she won't be in mine. She is coming to the rehearsal dinner and came to my shower though. It is your day, so have those you really want up by your side.

It is perfectly normal to not want family members to be a part of your wedding. Especially when it depends on the type of relationship you have with them. In your case, you definitely don't need her to be a part of it.

My fiance and I arent including any siblings in our wedding parties. I am the oldest of 9 (4 brothers, 4 sisters) and he has 2 sisters and a brother. If we included everyone we would already have large parties and really no room for friends to be involved. We valued the support of our friends being in our wedding parties over the tradition of including siblings. none except one of my fiance's sisters and her husband has an issue with it.

No. Just because she’s your sister doesn’t automatically make her a bridesmaid. Pick those closest to you!

There’s nothing bad about it. However, if it’s going to weigh on your conscience then do what’s going to make you feel at peace.

I was in this exact same situation. I would say if you guys aren't close then no. I feel like I asked my sister out of guilt. It's only 4 of us. I'm the bride, my oldest sister is my maid of honor, and our only brother is giving me away. I felt like my mom would roll over in her grave if I left one sibling out even though this sister has NEVER been there for me in any situation in my life. But now that I asked I'm so worried that we are gonna have a situation where she don't show up AGAIN for me so I have a back up just in case and nobody should have to feel that way for their wedding.

I'm not having my sister and she's totally fine about it. She's a talented baker and is making my wedding cake 🍰

There's nothing bad about it if your personal situation warrants that. Just because someone is family doesn't mean they HAVE to be in your wedding.

View Quoted Comment See that’s the sad part that we are close she was just never really supportive but now she’s coming around.