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Jensen
Just Said Yes June 2021

Bridal party

Jensen, on February 4, 2020 at 10:03 PM Posted in Planning 0 4

Bridal Party

My bridal party is bigger than I’m wanting it to be. I have three younger sisters: jd, jr and jw. By the time I get married the ages will be 20, 18, 17. I have a close friend who has been apart of my life since we were babies (kp). (c) is my best friend, but is very controlling and I’m afraid she will try to take the spotlight. (C) and (L) lived together their senior year of college and stuff went down with the whole house. I tried to be Sweden but that didn’t work. (C) is the one person I could tell anything to and she wouldn’t judge or anything. Plus my fiancé doesn’t like her and neither do his groomsmen. (L) is going to be the wife of one of the groomsmen. We’ve gotten closer within the last two years. She’s getting married this June. But I’m not in her wedding. (H) is my fiancé’s sister who will be 21. We are polar opposites about anything and everything. My fiancé and her haven’t gotten along over the last few years. I tolerate her majority of the time. My fiancé only has 3 men. I don’t really want to have odd numbers because my OCD will be all over the place with pictures and everything. Please I need some advice.


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Latest activity by Megan, on February 6, 2020 at 1:12 AM
  • Jordan
    Expert March 2021
    Jordan ·
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    I mean if you want three i would pick your three sisters. If you start picking one friend on sister and on FSIL i think it could get kind of messy.

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  • Laura
    Devoted July 2020
    Laura ·
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    To be honest, I think I would just stick with my three sisters as bridesmaids. That way, it is even 3 and 3, and no one should have hurt feelings because they are your family. If you include one friend, then the others start drama and you have 10 bridesmaids before you know it. I've seen it happen. Better to keep it simple.


    Plus, the bigger the bridal party, the more expensive everything is for you.
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  • Jensen
    Just Said Yes June 2021
    Jensen ·
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    I thought of that, but only jr is the one in closest with. My parents are already paying for the wedding. I don’t want them paying for more dresses.
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  • M
    Expert October 2021
    Megan ·
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    Even sides are never a reason to include or exclude people from your bridal party. If you want to include your friends, you should include them. If you don't mind me asking, are you diagnosed with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder? I only ask because so many people through out "OCD" as a general term when they just like things a certain way, which typically isn't how people's OCD manifests.

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