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AshleeC423
VIP April 2017

Bridal party sitting during ceremony?

AshleeC423, on February 20, 2017 at 4:59 PM Posted in Planning 0 9

We are having our ceremony on the dance floor of our reception room. While looking at our floor plan I grew worried about some tables not having a clear view of the ceremony if the bridal party are standing up with us. I thought of the idea of having chairs on both the bride and grooms side and after walking down the aisle they sit in one of the chairs in the dance floor so that they aren't in the way of some tables. I called our venue coordinator and she said if I really wanted to we could, but she thinks it'd make the pictures look bad. She said if our bridal party formed more of a curved line then everyone would be able to see just fine. I also thought the chairs would be nice since we aren't having a rehearsal.. that way there'd be no confusion on where to stand, they'd just go to the chairs by us. What are your thoughts on this/or have you seen it done before?


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Latest activity by Michael V, on February 21, 2017 at 7:59 AM
  • Sara
    Master April 2017
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    The guests are sitting at their dinner tables during the reception? This seems super awkward to me. IMO I would have the venue move the chairs onto the dance floor and create an aisle for you to walk down. That way everyone can see and they arent sitting at their dinner tables. Event staff can move the chairs back to the tables once the ceremony is over

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  • Old married lady
    Master September 2016
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    Mine was in a church but the bridal party sat most of the time. They stood for the vows but other than that they sat down.

    However, i agree with Sara that sitting at their tables during seems awkward.

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  • AshleeC423
    VIP April 2017
    AshleeC423 ·
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    We're having 100 guests, that many chairs won't fit on the dance floor. Also I've heard from a lot of people that went to weddings where they had to move tables and chairs after the ceremony and they hated it

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  • BookcaseHat
    Master July 2017
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    I've been to a few weddings where the guests were seated at dinner tables during the reception. At all of them, the bridal party sat during the ceremony. I think seating is fine, or your coordinators suggestion of a curved line. Would the bridal party be able to do a super quick run-through before guests arrived? Just so they can see the space beforehand and know where to stand?

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  • Sara
    Master April 2017
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    @Ashlee --the chairs dont have to all fit on the dance floor. And no guest should ever have to move a chair or table...thats what the venue staff is paid to do.

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  • Belinda
    Dedicated June 2017
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    The plan seems awkward. I see in the floor plan that there is an atrium. Can you have your ceremony there. Being that you're only have 100 guest, the labor shouldn't be that intense.

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  • AshleeC423
    VIP April 2017
    AshleeC423 ·
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    The atrium is tiny and could probably fit about 30 chairs max. I made a post before booking the venue asking for advice on having a ceremony where everyone sat at their reception tables and the majority said that they've attended weddings and it turned out really well so that's what the plan is. I just need advice on if the bridal party should sit or stand

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  • lyla
    Master July 2017
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    I honestly prefer when the bridal party sits and I'm hoping to have mine sit (though my planner is totally against the idea). I just remember being a BM and awkwardly standing and fake smiling for 30 minutes while my feet hurt. It was super awkward; I didn't know what to do with my face/hands/entire self. I think it's fine to have them sit Smiley smile

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  • Michael V
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    Hi, Ashlee. Trust your venue. I highly recommend having your wedding party stand during the ceremony. Instead of chairs to mark their place perhaps use tape on the floor. Ask your officiant to conduct a walk through on the day of so you all have an idea of the nuts and bolts of the ceremony. I've officiated plenty of weddings with your style seating arrangement and everybody was just fine. Best wishes!

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