I recently got engaged. My sister was married this past June and made me her MOH. She said I was the closest girl to her in her life. Which was super sweet, although I thought she had a lot of close girl friends her age (she is 5 years older than me). Anyways, I don't really feel that close to my sister. I love her as a sister and appreciate all she has done for me (allowed me to live in her basement for hecka cheap), but I don't see her in my wedding party. I see just my three best friends and my fiance's sister-in-law who I have been getting closer to. Of course she will be included in all the wedding festivities (maybe not bachelorette depending on what we do), and she will be getting ready with my, my bridesmaids and my brothers fiance. Is okay that im not including her in my party? Any advice on how to handle any possible disappointment?