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Beginner October 2020

Bridal Party or Immediate Family in First Row?

Meghan, on September 29, 2020 at 8:57 AM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 8

Hi all,

As I'm sure many of us have, my wedding coming up is not the original wedding I had planned, but something we sort of pieced together last minute after everything else fell through. My problem is, the wedding is now very small (about 28 guests), but our bridal party is still the same size it was for our original, big wedding (5 on each side). But now that we are at this small venue, we don't really have the room for the bridal party all stand up front with us during the ceremony, so only the BM and MOH will stand, the others are going to walk down the aisle and be seated. But my problem is, where do I seat them? I have heard that they should be seated in the front row, but then I would have to put my immediate family in the second row (and as I understand, immediate family is also *supposed* to sit in the first row). Because we are only having 28ish guests, each row is only 4-5 chairs long, so basically, my family and bridal party can't all sit in the front row, so who should go in the second row? I'm thinking my family, because the bridesmaids should sit in front, so that after walking down the aisle, they don't have to climb or squeeze over anyone to get to their chairs.

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Latest activity by Katie, on September 29, 2020 at 11:12 AM
  • Chrysta
    Master November 2022
    Chrysta ·
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    I have been to several weddings who have chosen to have the wedding party seated after walking down the aisle. They had the bridesmaids sit in the front row on the brides side, and the groomsmen sit in the front row on the groom side. Family was seated directly behind them with parents seated on the aisle.
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  • M
    Beginner October 2020
    Meghan ·
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    OKay, cool that's pretty much what I was picturing! Thank you!

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    I would have the bridal party in the front row.

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  • M
    Beginner October 2020
    Meghan ·
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    Thank you!

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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    You can put the bridal party in the front row, I agree about it being convenient that they won't have to climb over or squeeze through the chairs.

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  • Stacey
    Super May 2021
    Stacey ·
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    I've been to many weddings (most catholic ones) where the bridal party sits down during the ceremony and it is always in the front pew. It is really up to you though!

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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    I agree that the bridal party would go in the front toe then your family seated behind them.
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  • K
    Expert October 2020
    Katie ·
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    I am having a Catholic wedding and our church is having our bridal party sit in the second row behind the parents.


    With Social distancing what it is, the chairs should be spaced a part enough where they don’t have to climb over or squeeze into any chairs. I actually like this better because I think the parents should be n felt without an unobstructed view.
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