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Beginner June 2023

Bridal party gifts

Kelly, on August 5, 2022 at 12:29 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 6

Hi All,


I'm planning to give out my bridal party gifts at my bachelorette, but I have a friend coming who is not in my bridal party. Should I get her a gift as well? or should I wait to give out the gifts?


for context, I was planning on getting monogrammed bags which I thought could be useful for the bachelorette weekend, but open to ideas.

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Latest activity by Kelly, on August 23, 2022 at 3:47 PM
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    Rosebud ·
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    If the other person will be there when you are giving out the gifts I wouldn't give them at that time. I d either do it before the bachelorette party or at another time, you are not obligated to get her a gift but it is never fun to feel left out. Have fun at your bachelorette!

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  • Imani
    Master July 2022
    Imani ·
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    I’d wait. Especially if everyone is getting a gift except that one person. However, if you feel as though, you’d like to give the person a gift it can be something small. Although, it’s not required.
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  • Michelle
    Champion December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    Wait until the rehearsal dinner to give them out.
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  • Julija
    Expert October 2023
    Julija ·
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    Personally, I would hand them out to your girls the next time you see them. One on one interactions are always so much more meaningful. It also cuts out any awkwardness that could pop up.
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  • Gillian
    Devoted July 2021
    Gillian ·
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    If you want to give her the same gift (your choice) then you could do it at the same time. If you do not wish to give this person the gift, I would wait until AFTER/ANOTHER TIME to pass them out. Having been that person before, it feels very hurtful to see others receive something in front of you but also if they all show up with the gift (monogram bag) for the event. Basically, I suggest that you give them all the gift or wait until after event to give. Hope this helps and doesn’t come off harshly.
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  • K
    Beginner June 2023
    Kelly ·
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    Thank you all for your advice!

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