My fiance and I dont have any bridesmaids, maid of honor, best man or groomsmen. Our Mom's and his sister are single and my Mom wants me to ask wedding guests (family) to escort them down the aisle, back up the aisle, then have them line up for the reception intro after which everyone will sit down to eat and for the escorts to pull out their chairs to seat them for dinner. I feel that is asking too much and the very reason why we didn't want a traditional bridal party. We just want folks to come and be guests. Am I being difficult? Should I ask guests to now "work" during my wedding? The request feels a little selfish bc my Mom feels a way abiut being single during my wedding. Plus my Dad is married and will be bringing his wife (who I adore) and new family.