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Lauren
Expert September 2017

Bridal party disagreement!

Lauren, on October 19, 2016 at 8:20 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 22

My FH has probably 3 people on his side, I will only have his little sister and I asked my brother to be my man of honor Smiley smile but FH is concerned about how it will look and concerned about how the whole walking down the aisle stuff. I told him,to get over it pretty much (I have no friends or family to be part of the bridal party). Anyone else have uneven numbers or have man of honors??

22 Comments

Latest activity by Cynthia, on October 20, 2016 at 2:43 PM
  • RealLindseyO
    Master October 2017
    RealLindseyO ·
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    Plenty of people have uneven sides. Nothing to worry about.

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  • Taryn
    VIP June 2017
    Taryn ·
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    We are having uneven sides. I have 3 (MOH and 2 BMs) FH has 6 (2 best men and 4 GM).

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  • BeachDreams
    Master May 2017
    BeachDreams ·
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    Sides can be uneven Smiley smile

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  • Fitz
    Master August 2018
    Fitz ·
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    That is becoming very common! Lot's of people have uneven numbers and mix up the genders in their bridal party. It will not look weird at all.

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  • fallinthegarden
    Master October 2017
    fallinthegarden ·
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    We don't have uneven sides, but I'm planning on asking my best guy friend to stand on my side. I don't think anyone will think it's strange.

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  • Joanna
    Dedicated May 2017
    Joanna ·
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    We're uneven too, I have three and FH has 4. Walking down the aisle is something I'm not worried about until the night before

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  • S
    Super June 2017
    SoontobeMrs. ·
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    I'm having uneven sides in my bridal party

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  • MrsSki
    Master April 2017
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    Have the groomsmen walk one after the other (alone) then have your brother escort your FSIL. Uneven sides are fine!

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  • Danielle
    Devoted May 2017
    Danielle ·
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    We're uneven too. I have 4, FH has 6. I was concerned at first but it seems really common. I'd rather have the people who matter most rather than throwing in 2 extra bodies for the sake of even sides.

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  • FutureMrsH
    Savvy October 2017
    FutureMrsH ·
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    I'm having 4 and FH will have 8. I was always worried about it at first but it's just something I can't control so why stress about it. Uneven sides are the new normal Smiley smile

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  • Amanda
    VIP October 2016
    Amanda ·
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    We were also uneven. I had 4 he had 3.

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  • Kristina
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    I think it's fine! Your brother and his sister would walk down together and all of his boys together or whatever you'd like!

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  • CMC
    Master November 2016
    CMC ·
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    We are having uneven sides. BM are walking in alone and we will have a group of 3 for the recessional

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  • Rachel DellaPorte
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    It happens every weekend of every month of every year. Nobody really cares. They're waiting to see the bride, not her bridal party.

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  • FutureMrsD
    VIP June 2017
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    Uneven sides is perfectly fine. Some of my groomsmen are walking two girls down the aisle and it's going to look just fine. That's one of the things I really wouldn't stress about and is low on my list of importance.

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  • sarah
    Dedicated October 2018
    sarah ·
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    Unless something changes we will have uneven sides....I don't have many friend and I'm from a small family....fh on the other hand is from a huge family and friends with everyone.....

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  • Michelle W.
    Expert November 2016
    Michelle W. ·
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    We are having uneven sides. We are having everyone walk single.

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  • Sara
    Savvy November 2017
    Sara ·
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    We are having uneven side and my brother is my man of honor too Smiley smile

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  • mimitrue
    Master January 2016
    mimitrue ·
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    I had uneven sides and it was perfectly fine.

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  • Lynn
    Devoted October 2016
    Lynn ·
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    We had 5 and 7 with two extra groomsmen. We had them escort DHs grandmother and my brother (a groomsman) escorted my mom down the aisle. We didn't do bridal party entrances at the reception so it didn't matter then.

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