Boutonnières

Most weddings I've been to, the only men outside of wedding party who wear boutonnieres are the fathers, brothers, grandfathers of the couple. Do what works for you.

I usually see groom/groomsmen, dads and grandpas, and brothers (if they aren't already groomsmen) with boutonnieres. That's what we did as well, but we also gave husband's uncle 1 because he was our officiant. My husband's was a bit more intricate, his uncle's was simpler, and the rest all had the same.

No, I'm only doing groomsmen, best man, parents and grandparents..

The only people outside of wedding party that got flowers at our wedding were parents. Boutonnière for dads and corsage for moms.
You can make it as simple or extravagant as you want. I wanted simple and wasn’t worried about hurting anyone’s feelings about not getting a flower.

I gave it to my brother and the fathers too

A lot of women will not wear corsages. You cannot pin them on many delicate fabrics, unless there is a jacket, without pins leaving pull or run marks that last forever. And where older women almost all used to entirely cover their chests, if not wear a jacket, now they often have a barer front. Or wear a syrapless or spaghetti straps or a halter, and do not want flowers on 1 breast . Ask preferences. Most discard wrist ones. Many mothers and grandmothers enjoy a small, separate bouquet in front of their place at dinner. Just see what people want. Working catering, I often saw 8-10 $25-60 each corsages thrown away, or dropped on a table, by the beginning of dinner. If your ladies want them, mothers, stepmothers, grandmothers, godmothers, and any men you designate. Only 1 great aunt and a godmother, one his one mine, would wear a corsage. Others had low cut stylish dresses in sulk or satiny fabrics, who said, please don't. We got 2 50+stem bunches of Iris and asian lilies, and went with bouquets in vases mothers, grands, godmothers, and other great aunts could take home.

We’re skipping boutonnières and corsages completely. I’ve only ever seen boutonnières given to the groomsmen, fathers, and grandfathers and corsages (the wrist kind, preferably) to the mothers and grandmothers. I definitely wouldn’t give them to everyone.

We're also giving them to the dads and brothers. (and if we had grandfathers they would get them too.)

Both of our dads wore boutonnieres . If our grandfathers were still alive, they would also have worn boutonnieres .