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Boudior Photos, yes or no?

Kate, on August 9, 2019 at 11:56 AM Posted in Hair and Makeup 0 11
The subject of Boudior Photos at work came up - side note I'm in the Event Industry - and I always wondered how to determine if this is something your significant other would want or appreciate? It's not my coworkers thing as she didn't think at the time her husband would want them but how exactly do know?

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Latest activity by Lara, on August 9, 2019 at 4:55 PM
  • Allie
    Master August 2019
    Allie ·
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    I asked my FH about it. I brought up the subject of bride's doing the photoshoot and giving the groom a book of photos as the wedding present. He said he thought it was totally weird and I agreed.

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  • Kelly
    VIP October 2020
    Kelly ·
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    I told mine some people do boudoir shoots as a gift to the groom. I expected my fiance to say that was stupid but he suggested taking some together 🤦🤣
    We decided there was likely a better way to spend the money after he saw the cost.
    I think when in doubt ask.
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
    Mrs. S ·
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    I did mine in January and my fiancé has no clue. I wasn’t sure if he would like them or not but a few months ago he said we should do them together so I figured it was something he would like. Plus they turned out great and I like having the pictures for my own self confidence if nothing else
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  • Kellie Martinez
    Super October 2019
    Kellie Martinez ·
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    TBH, i love the idea but I'm not confident enough to take photos like that or to even be that undressed in front of anyone that isn't my fiance so I'm not doing it..

    if you are confident and think you're fiance will like it then i don't see why not!

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  • Katie
    Super November 2019
    Katie ·
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    I did my shoot in May and FH doesn't know about it at all, I didn't even get his opinion or casually bring it up I just booked my session. If my FH doesn't like the album I'm okay with that, because I also did it for myself as a confidence boost as well as a way to look back years from now at my "pre baby body" because we don't have kids yet.
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  • Brae
    VIP September 2019
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    Actually the week before my shoot, my fh brought it up and asked if I was planning on doing one. I told him I looked into it and it was too expensive, because I want to surprise him. I knew before that that he'd like it because I know the kinda person he is, but that did confirm it.
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  • A
    Dedicated August 2019
    Ashley ·
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    My Fh is bashful so not too comfortable with anyone seeing my in lingerie or even naked. So he said he wants to take them. Which is cool because what a romantic evening that can turn into
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  • Mary
    Expert July 2019
    Mary ·
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    I was looking for something different to gift my now-husband and thought a boudoir shoot would be something he'd like. He kept trying to guess what I'd be getting him and when I didn't deny this one, he got super excited. My photographer was great and the whole session was a big boost for my self-confidence.
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  • Andrea
    Super October 2019
    Andrea ·
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    I did mine 2 weeks ago. It was amazing and not nearly as nerve wracking as I thought it would be. You just have to find a good photographer.
    The photos are so gorgeous! FH enjoys stuff like this, so it’s worth it to do. Not only that, but you’ll have a photographic reminder of how beautiful you were when you’re old and grey.
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    I would ask FS how they feel about it. When I brought up the subject, my FH was like, what am I supposed to do with those? So I scratched the idea

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  • Lara
    Devoted October 2019
    Lara ·
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    My FH asked if I was doing one twice (he saw a booth at a bridal show), but I said I wasn't. BECAUSE I was already planning on surprising him. I have mine next month and I'm so excited! I know he is going to flip.

    What man/woman wouldn't want sexy pictures of their loved one?

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