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Samantha
Savvy November 2020

Booking Hotel Rooms for Guests

Samantha, on March 13, 2019 at 3:12 PM Posted in Planning 0 27
Hi folks. November 2020 bride here, so plenty of time to plan, but I'm curious about other people's experience with one aspect of our wedding that will likely be a huge part of our budget: booking hotel rooms for out-of-town guests.


We will need to book at least 5 rooms, maybe more, for friends and family to stay in for 2 nights (Fri & Sat). Does anyone have any experience with doing this? Do you get a multi-room discount at most places? How far in advance do you need to book? What should we look for/ask places when choosing a hotel? Anything else to keep in mind?

I know lots of people usually just suggest hotels for guests to book themselves but I really want to provide a place for our guests to stay so that it won't be an obstacle for anyone. Some of our most beloved friends and family will be invited (from across the country) and we want to do everything we can to make it easier for them to come.

Thanks for your input!

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Latest activity by MrsD, on March 14, 2019 at 1:32 PM
  • MrsJackson
    Super October 2018
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    Call around different hotels in the area and say you're wanting a courtesy room block. Courtesy rooms blocks don't hold you accountable for any rooms not used. Also, just get the maximum amount of rooms they allow you to block.

    When I did mine it was about 20 rooms. Most people do about 2 or 3 hotels with different price ranges.

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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    I tried to book a year out but they told me to wait til April for my nov 2019 wedding. I’m planning to do 3 hotels of 10-12 blocks since everyone is traveling. They just have a certain day guests have to book by to get the block discount, no fees if they don’t book.
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  • Caryscia
    Savvy November 2021
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    There are many ways to go about this. The term for booking/holding rooms is "room block". I would talk to the event coordinator at your venue for recommendations or if they have any agreements with nearby hotels. If you want to work directly with a hotel you'd go through their sales department. Ask if they have a room minimum or nights minimum. The downside to room blocks is that rooms not filled may fall on you to pay for. So room blocks just set aside rooms at a discounted rate for your guests to book and pay for on their own. If you're feeling generous and have the budget to pay for the rooms yourself you can still potentially score a deal for a group rate. Also, know what the budget is for room rates for your guests if they are paying.
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  • Samantha
    Savvy November 2020
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    So with a block, who pays for the rooms? Guests or the bride and groom?
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  • Samantha
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    Oh okay so room blocks are like getting a discounted rate for your guests from a certain hotel? So they pay but at a lowered price, correct? That may be a good option for us because we dont exactly have a huge budget but we don't want the cost of travel to be an obstacle for our guests
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  • Samantha
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    Okay so a "courtesy block" is the way to go, it sounds like. Do you still get a discount for your guests this way? Sorry, I'm winging this whole wedding planning thing so I dont know terminology lol
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  • ASMini914
    Super September 2019
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    Are you doing a room block, where the guest is responsible for actually booking and paying for their own room? Or are you planning to pay for hotel rooms for your guests? Two totally different things, I don’t feel it’s necessary for you to pay for the hotel rooms.

    What you you can do is work with a local hotel or two to block rooms... this is basically a hold on a certain number of rooms, often at a discounted rate until 4-6 weeks (it varies) before the date. Guests would then have to contact the hotel (by phone or through a link you can put on your website) to actually reserve and pay for the rooms.
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  • Kristin
    Super November 2019
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    We are not booking rooms for anyone but we did get a block at a hotel for people. Requirements are different for different places. The one we ended up with was a 20 room block (more can be added as needed) and we are responsible for 10, so if 10 rooms don't book for whatever reason we would have to eat that additional cost. There is usually a group rate that they will offer and you usually don't need to have that many rooms (we do it for hockey tournys and sometimes we only end up with like 4 rooms) and if you have enough "room nights" booked you may get a free room or a discount on a suite (we are getting $100 off). Some offer shuttles, others dont, some do it by number of runs based on number of rooms but make sure if you know its going to be 2 guests/room and its 1 shuttle / 10 rooms but the shuttle only holds 14 people you are going to have 6 with no transportation.

    I would definitely go look at the hotels if you can and look at ones that maybe aren't on the recommended list from your vendor. All of the hotels in the area were comparable in price and what they offered but we found one that wasn't on the recommendation list that was equivalent in cost but was heads and tails above the rest with what they offered and how pretty the whole place was.

    Definitely check out what the breakfast set up is, people are gonna want to eat the next morning.

    If you plan on doing pictures at the hotel, make sure 1 they have someplace pretty to do it, and 2 that you are aloud to. We looked at 1 place that was very restrictive as to where we would be able to do pictures.

    I would also ask if they have anywhere you can use as like an "afterparty" spot. I know my family will not be done partying at 12 when we shut down so we have a banquet room that is away from guest rooms that we can bring a cooler and keep it rolling.

    If its an option I would try to pick something at a couple different price points (like I said, everyone in our area was about the same price so we only have 1) in case anyone wants to opt for a hotel that you do not plan on covering.

    Good luck!

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  • Mrs. S
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    The guests will pay for their own rooms. I chose to get a rental house for our wedding party on-site and pay for that.
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  • Caryscia
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    Yes, but it often requires a contract. Look at pricing for rooms at a hotel online for this November so you have something to compare when they quote you prices for a room block. If you have a planner or month of coordinator ask them for recommendations too. Also, you can probably get a better deal if a hotel works with your venue. FYI, unless you are getting a lot of rooms (20+ depending on hotel capacity) don't expect a mega discount. I've received a lot of information by going to bridal expos in my area. Since you have a similar date to mine I'd suggest checking out free admission expos if those are available/convenient for you. Unless the expo is really big the paid ones are rarely worth it.

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  • MrsJackson
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    Usually they will give a discount for room blocks, but it's usually not a big difference from my experience.

    And no problem Smiley smile

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  • C
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    Were not booking for our guest or doing a hotel block. Our view is we have enough to do and our guest are adults and can book their own hotel lol
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  • Annie
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    I got married in Charlottesville, VA during football season and was advised to call one year out to get courtesy blocks. Some hotels were already booked up a year out but I was able to get 2 hotels to agree to courtesy blocks of 10 rooms each. I'd start calling hotels this fall to see if they offer this service.

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  • Samantha
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    So I would really like to book the rooms myself and pay for them but I dont really think that's going to be possible on our budget. I actually wasn't aware that you could request a room block but I think we will go that route so that guests get a discount since we most likely won't be able to pay for rooms ourselves. We do have a wedding website where we can post the link to whatever hotel we end up blocking.
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  • Samantha
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    Thanks so much for the info. I'm comparing "normal" room costs at a few hotels now. Never thought about going to a bridal expo honestly because I thought it wouldn't be helpful but I'll try to make it to the next one near me
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  • Samantha
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    Thank you! I'm friends with the manager of a local hotel about 10 minutes from the venue and she has already said our guests are welcome to stay there (it's a nice place - they provide breakfast, a pool, gym, etc) . I just wasnt quite sure how to go about booking/blocking or what to ask other hotels when comparing my friends hotels pricing to theirs.
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  • ASMini914
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    It sounds like that will be a really great option for you, especially if it helps to stay in budget! I’ve honestly never been to a wedding where the bride and groom paid for hotel rooms for others, so I can’t imagine people would expect you to do that!

    You could always set set up two blocks at hotels in different price points so guests have an option! You do still have plenty of time, and when it gets closer to the day if someone important to you is prevented from coming because they can’t afford to stay in a hotel then maybe you will be in a position to help them. But again you certainly are expected to do this!!
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  • Tabitha
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    Bridal Expos are SOOOO helpful. They have multiple vendors for everything you would need. Even some that may not be well known so you may not have ever found them. I loved it. Plus you get to feel special! You get cute bags free samples, even free food sometimes.

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  • Caryscia
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    Even if you don't find a vendor you get free stuff like tote bags, bottles of champagne, small soaps and candles, and they often have free mimosas and food. I live on the SoCal coast so it might be different here, but I doubt it. If you go, take a buddy or your fiance along with a pen and notepad so you can jot down which vendors you like. Often vendors offer special discounts at these events plus raffles. Many will work with you too. One vendor gave us a coupon that expires May 2020, but she said she would still honor it for our date. When it comes to wedding planning and discounts a question unasked is a missed opportunity.

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  • Danielle K
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    Hey so this whole concept confused me so badly when I first started planning. I originally wanted to have a destination wedding but thought I had to pay for all guests hotel rooms and realized it was cheaper just to get married locally. I didn't realize my misunderstanding for quite a while lol

    Guests will and should pay for their hotel room. They will not see this as an inconvenience.. Your loved ones will just be happy to be with you at this joyous occasions

    set "curtesy hotel blocks" with 3 separate hotels with varying price ranges. make sure these are with hotels that do not hold you responsible for payment of unused rooms, and try to make sure the rooms will be blocked up until your deadline for RSVP

    Post these hotels with their contact info on your wedding website. some people even include them in their details section of their invitations. make sure to remind guests they need to mention they are with your wedding in order to receive a discount.

    check back with the hotels you blocked rooms with closer to your RSVP deadline to see if they are full so you can add more rooms.


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