I told her not to worry about anything, though I'd really like her to be here for the day. If I had the money, I'd offer to help, but I don't, and I hate that.
I'll be talking to her a little more over the next few days, but I don't want her to feel pushed. I'm just really, really worried about her.
Just needed to vent. We've been through a lot together (including surviving Hurricane Sandy in a flooded part of NJ), and *she's* been through a lot. I always have a low-level thrum of worry about her, anyway. Now it's kicked into a higher gear.
It's so frustrating to be far away and not have the money to help.
