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Sierra
Just Said Yes August 2018

bm is a bridesmaids Husband, do they have to walk together?

Sierra, on January 8, 2018 at 9:23 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 25

Hi! Ok here’s the deal, my FHs Best man is his brother and his wife is one of my bridesmaids. Do they have to walk together or do we just go on like normal and have them walk with the normal people? (Bestman w/ MOH and then bridesmaid w another GM).
Hi! Ok here’s the deal, my FHs Best man is his brother and his wife is one of my bridesmaids. Do they have to walk together or do we just go on like normal and have them walk with the normal people? (Bestman w/ MOH and then bridesmaid w another GM).

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  • Ashley
    Savvy October 2019
    Ashley ·
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    BM and MOH should walk together, it isn't that big of a deal! (to me at least!)


    My fiance and I were both in his brother's wedding, He was his brother's BM and I was just a bridesmaid, and we didn't walk together ceremony or reception entrance and it didn't bother me one bit! Now they're were getting married, His brother is gonna be his BM and his wife is in my bridal party and they won't be walking together either.



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  • K
    Just Said Yes December 2022
    Kristie ·
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    It's not their wedding... They're already married so they have photos like that already.
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  • Jacks
    Champion November 2054
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    Ok so you're quoting a comment from 2018, just a heads up this is an old thread. I do stand by my comments though. Once you start thinking of people as props, I think it's not great.

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  • Christian
    Just Said Yes September 2023
    Christian ·
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    I was just in my friends wedding this past weekend. I was a bridesmaid and my fiance was the best man. We did not walk down the aisle together nor sat next to each other at the bridal party table and I wasn't mad or hurt at all! This isn't my day it was the Bride and Grooms day. We did whatever it took to make sure their day was perfect. Plus after dinner we got to dance together and help the bride and groom have a smooth night together. We can live 2 hours not next to each other.

    It's YOUR day, and if they do really love you then it won't be a big deal! Smiley smile

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  • Michael
    Master October 2023
    Michael ·
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    It shouldn't be a problem not having them paired together. It could also work if they were paired together. They just would adjust the position in the final steps. It could be nice to let the couple know beforehand just in case they had an issue.

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