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Amina
Dedicated January 2020

bm addition

Amina, on August 27, 2019 at 6:59 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 6
Is it too late to add another BM 5 months out? She was on the list to add before I got to too many and already had 2 girls drop. I still have a proposal box I can give her. Any advice??

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Latest activity by Brittany, on August 28, 2019 at 3:29 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    I wouldn’t. It’s obvious that she was a runner up.
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    As Caytlyn said, adding her now would probably make her feel like an afterthought and hurt feelings. I'd leave your bridal party as is

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  • Julie
    VIP February 2020
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    I agree with previous posts. I would feel kinda...insulted really.

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  • Sara
    Super October 2019
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    Yeah, I unfortunately agree. It'd be nice to be included, but it would definitely feel like she's a last minute add-on who didn't make the cut. I'd just leave things as they are.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    I wouldn't add a B list bridesmaid. I'd keep the ones you have.

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  • B
    Super July 2018
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    I added a bridesmaid on later on! I had asked all my bridesmaids 13-14 months before the wedding, and then added another 9 months before. She was thrilled to be asked! However, she didn't know how much later she got asked because I didn't put anything on social media about who my bridesmaids were, the only time it could have been assumed was when I went dress shopping I took a picture with everyone that came. I asked the last bridesmaid 2 weeks after that.

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