Hello all! I am getting married to a wonderful man who has a daughter who will be 18 years old when we wed. I also have 2 children. My daughter will also be 18 years old (she is 2 weeks older than my future Step-daughter) and a 15 year old boy. All 3 are in our wedding. I would like to do some sort of blended family ritual. Trying to avoid candles and/or sand? Any thoughts? ideas? Tried and true suggestions?? Thanks!