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Take a mental health day. Do an at-home spa type thing and focus on you instead of the wedding. Asmr in the background helps.


Be aware that everyone is going to have their own issues and opinions, and you can only can change yourself. Best of luck!

Hi Abi!

Now can definitely be more stressful than normal due to covid. I would just take a couple days to breathe, relax and just gather your thoughts. What exactly is it that you have left that you need help with?

Not necessarily blah but not as excited as I was in the beginning especially with Covid leaving so many things up in the air.

I have been feeling the exact same way lately! Honestly, planning lately has made me quite miserable, and it's so disappointing to feel that way. I felt like my head was going to explode from stress last week because of having to cut our guest list in half, and not knowing who to invite. I started to focus on some self-care ways that personally help me relax and feel better. I make a to-do list every day of a few wedding things that can get done, and if nothing needs to get done that day, I don't plan. I also started journaling, which I'm not very good at, but it's nice to get your feelings out that way if it works for you, and it has made me feel a bit better. Maybe do something that relaxes you before you go to bed each night, for instance I read a book. You could drink some decaf tea, or take a bath, something to help calm you down before you go to bed. (I know I start overthinking, and then don't sleep well because of how much is on my mind). If working out takes your mind off of the world around you, you can do that as well. Just little things during the day that help keep you focused and not stress about everything. It's really important to find time for yourself and not get overworked. Also, have you talked to your fiancé to tell him how you feel? Maybe ask if he can help out with a few tasks so you don't have to worry about them. Remember, everything will be figured out and your wedding day will be great!