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Goodbye
VIP October 2014

Black Veil - Opinions?

Goodbye, on October 6, 2013 at 6:24 PM Posted in Do It Yourself 0 33

I originally didn't want to wear a veil, until I came across the one in the first photo. From there I was inspired to recreate the look only in black, which I feel I accomplished well.

I will be wearing a white gown with a black sash and black shoes, a white veil just didn't feel like "me". FI is alright with it, but is afraid I'm already going to give his family heart attacks over the sash and shoes amongst several other things, like my brooch bouquet that if you look closely at you'll realize has about 10 large spiders in it and my brother being my man of honor that will stand in on my side....Anyway, I figure that to respect his family I may not wear the veil, if I do it will just be for a few personal photos, but I'm also kind of sad that I'm giving up the look I want for my wedding day. What do you all think? Am I making the right choice?

First photo is inspiration, second two are the veil I made.




33 Comments

Latest activity by ~*World Of Whimsical*~, on October 7, 2013 at 6:28 PM
  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
    Nonna T ·
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    Wish i could see it on you and esp with the dress but hey, rock it all! i really think you can carry it off!

    trust me, they will live Smiley smile

    i cannot wait to see those photos!

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  • H
    Master October 2013
    HalloweenBride ·
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    So, this is kind of funny. We both are wearing black sashes, black shoes, with brooch bouquets, and I have a black veil. My concern that is showing up oh, 20 days before my wedding, is that I might look more like a girl going to prom than a bride. Here's a pic of me in my gown with the davids bridal veil. And then my veil on the model, no cat ears for me though!

    I honestly think his family would find the spiders more offensive than the black veil, but some people are really weird and think brides should only be in white, when traditionally they wore color and in some cultures they still do!



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  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
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    Oh hb i love it! no you don't look prommie, you are very bridey!

    there you go annie Smiley smile great minds think alike Smiley smile

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  • RachelT
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    At first I was thinking it would be too black for the dress... even with a black sash. I am so glad halloweenbride showed her picture! It looks really nice. Go for it!

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  • MissMadeline
    Master June 2014
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    I love it! The only problem I could foresee is your older/super traditional guests thinking it's a bit funereal. BUT it's your day and I think it will look awesome Smiley smile

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  • Donna
    Master June 2014
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    I think it looks pretty and should complement your dress perfectly. I have to confess though, when I read the title of your post, I pictured those long black veils that widows used to wear at funerals. That might not have been such a good look.

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  • Staci
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    Halloweenbride I believe you have the same dress as me Smiley smile

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  • Staci
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    Anniebell, I don't see anything wrong with the black veil. I think it is very unique, and if you love it, who cares what anyone else may think. It is your wedding not theirs. I understand you may not want to hurt you FH family but can't they just deal with it for one day?

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  • Future Mrs. Coombs
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    Future Mrs. Coombs ·
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    I think it's great Smiley smile And even better if it shows who you are. Smiley smile

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  • Private User
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    Private User ·
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    I think it would look lovely!

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  • Emily
    Expert October 2013
    Emily ·
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    It sounds glamorous but to me an all-black veil makes me think of a funeral. I'm not saying it wouldn't be beautiful, but it might make some guests wonder how you really feel about the wedding! What if you did the mesh part black but the lace attached to the comb white? Or vice versa?

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  • PattyCakes
    Super June 2014
    PattyCakes ·
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    It's not my style, and kind of reminds me of women in mourning, BUT, it is YOUR wedding. Your October wedding to be exact, so I think it will be fine.

    Also, after seeing HalloweenBride's photo, I realized that the black veil can still look very bridal.

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  • Love Is Real
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    Love Is Real ·
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    I love it...I might just steal ur idea. I think you should be you and do what your heart desires.

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  • LG
    Master October 2014
    LG ·
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    I'm also doing a black sash with my dress and I think the black veil would look beautiful. I think because its short it works, if it was maybe a Cathedral veil that might be a little much.

    I think it looks great!

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  • K
    Just Said Yes November 2014
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    Beautiful. Smiley smile I think black and white weddings are gorgeous! And hey girl, it's your day! You wanna rock a black veil, go for it! It looks phenomenal!

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  • kysweetheart
    Super October 2013
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    Ok, my family is insanely traditional and would flip out completely if i did something like that. BUT...i personally think that it's beautiful. i wasn't sure when i first started reading it, but after seeing pics, I LOVE IT! i say go for it! don't have any regrets...just do it!

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  • Belais
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    I say go for it.

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  • Laura
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    Laura ·
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    I really like it, and I think you did a great job re-creating that veil in black! Just don't tell his family that you are wearing a black veil. Let them find out when you walk down the aisle. This way you don't have to deal with it if they don't like the idea Smiley smile

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  • CeCe
    Master May 2014
    CeCe ·
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    I really dislike the colored veil trend - personal style - black veils remind me of people going in to mourning which is the exact opposite of a wedding.

    It is your day, but sometimes you need to make small concession to make other people happy, even on your wedding. However saying that, it is a small birdcage and so I'm not sure it will be as big of a deal as your FH thinks. What about doing a compromise and having a white veil for your march down the aisle and then change in to the black bird cage for the reception? Just an option.

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  • LadyCrystal
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    I'd wear it for the reception.

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