Big or small?

View Quoted Comment I think no matter the size, when you have to plan your own wedding it all feels huge 🙁

View Quoted Comment When is the big day?

View Quoted Comment Wow! I don’t think I’ve heard of a venue having a guest minimum before.

View Quoted Comment It’s going to be so beautiful 😍

View Quoted Comment That’s definitely a nice size event. Ours will be “small” We have 75 guests to invite

View Quoted Comment Our max is 80 but there are only 72 guests on the list

View Quoted Comment So like a FaceTime kind of deal?

View Quoted Comment ❤️!!!!!!!!!!!!

View Quoted Comment How big is kinda?

Hi i started out with about 100 people but we decided to have it catered so that number may go down.

View Quoted Comment I originally said feb 22,2022 but the venue I wanted was booked every Saturday in feb,so I had to go with a Friday March 25 2022

We had 130 guest - very upscale and elegant. We went with Black Tie attire

Right now it's big (250 invited), but if I find a venue I love that that holds less I could shrink it. We're also considering a destination wedding so I'm guessing 50%-75% will RSVP.

My fiancé has an extremely large family, as do I- with some of our very close members already on the list, we are already almost up to 100.

For example, one of his uncles has 10 children, 3 of which are married, one who is getting married in December, and one cousin who JUST had a baby. That's already 17 people just for that one family of cousins! Much of our family is like this, haha. (And then I have 7 sisters and he has 3 brothers- the numbers just keep rising!)

Once you add our extremely large families, wedding party, and very few close friends (we only have a handful each- if that), I expect us to be close to 150-200 invited.

We're going to end up with a bigger wedding than I would have liked, but it will be a fun and exciting day full of close family and friends. Despite the big size, we're only inviting family and friends we are close to and expect to come.

Around 150

We started with small but as we spoke to family and friends, we realized that not only were people excited for us but also for the opportunity to see family and friends that used to be so close and just don't get together anymore. I'm 40, he's 35 and this will probably be the last wedding in our families for years. So we're inviting 150 and looking at it as not only our wedding, but a celebration of all our family and friends also.

View Quoted Comment Why’re you on the fence?

View Quoted Comment When is the big day?

View Quoted Comment That’s it! Nothing/no one else is important.

View Quoted Comment On the fence due to a lot of factors which have to do with family and dryer date I want for the wedding.