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Nina
Just Said Yes August 2018

Better way to say "and Guest"

Nina, on May 31, 2018 at 10:26 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 19

I've let my single friends and family know they're entitled a plus one, however I want to write it on the invitation to remind them. I don't have an inner envelope, so it will have to be on the outer envelope. Putting "and Guest" sounds boring and outdated. There has to be a better way to say it! What can I substitute it with? I'm all for a 1920s wording etiquette too as it'll match my invitations.

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Latest activity by Mrs. Fall Bride, on June 1, 2018 at 2:13 PM
  • Maria
    Master June 2018
    Maria ·
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    I had "__2__ have been reserved in your honor" written on my response cards. I didn't write "and guest" on the outer or inner envelopes. All my single guests understood they had a plus one.

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  • ISaidHallYes
    VIP November 2018
    ISaidHallYes ·
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    Everything I keep coming up with would be gender specific. I am totally running a blank here!

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  • ThePeoplesBride
    VIP October 2020
    ThePeoplesBride ·
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    You can always remind them by letting them know on the RSVP card you have reserved two seats for them instead of just one.

    Here are some synonyms for the word guest from thesaurus.com. I personally like "...& Company" / "...& Co."

    Better way to say "and Guest" 1
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  • A
    Devoted May 2020
    Ali ·
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    Maybe say, "bring a friend/date!" OR something along those lines
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  • Amanda
    Master October 2018
    Amanda ·
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    Im just putting and guest to the singles .. theres not many .. my response cards werent made to add how.many seats reserved
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  • Nina
    Just Said Yes August 2018
    Nina ·
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    I don't want to make guest feel like they have to bring a date by saying 2 seats have been reserved on the RSVP cards. I also don't want to have to reach out personally again to my guests to remind them and to boot, my invites don't allow for personal messages due to design and color.

    Why can't there be a better way to say "and guest". Maybe a word before "guest"... ugh!

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  • Amarriedmann
    Expert June 2019
    Amarriedmann ·
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    Hmmm. This is a stumper. Maybe

    “and welcomed guest” or
    “and companion”
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    I like "& company!"

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  • Susan
    Super November 2018
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    Agreed with this, that’s what we’re doing too.
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  • Jamie
    Dedicated June 2018
    Jamie ·
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    I think “and guest” is still the best way to go even if you think it’s outdated. It’s very clear and people understand it. If someone sent me an invitation that said “and company” I’d be asking what that meant, and trust me, it gets annoying with the constant questions of “what does this mean? Where is the venue? What time is the ceremony? What should I wear?” Even when the answers seem clear!
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  • FME
    Master March 2018
    FME ·
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    On our RSVP cards we had "There are __ Seats reserved in your honor" So we wrote 2, so they knew they could bring somebody.

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  • Nina
    Just Said Yes August 2018
    Nina ·
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    I like this the best: "and welcomed guest"

    Cheers!

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  • Mrs. Fall Bride
    Master October 2016
    Mrs. Fall Bride ·
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    This is not one of those things where you need to reinvent the wheel. "and Guest" is perfectly fine. Don't overthink it.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    You could maybe do "The Smith Party of 2?" or just "The Smith Party"? Then on the inside say we have reserved 2 seats for your party?

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  • Meet_The_Clarks
    VIP June 2018
    Meet_The_Clarks ·
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    We did and guest for single guests and it was fine. I also put __ of ___ seats reserved in your honor on the RSVP card. I had 1 person freak out that his 3 children, 13, 12 and 2.5 weren't invited and another add a plus one that wasn't originally provided (she is flying from AK and it's family but it all worked out). I think you're over thinking this. Guest is exactly what they are...

    Just my $.02

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  • Summer
    Super August 2018
    Summer ·
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    I'm not trying to be negative but I think "and Guest" is the best way to get to the point and not create confusion, unless you want to be super informal and say "Plus One" but I'm not sure if that's considered good etiquette. I'd advise some caution when it comes to addressing invites, just after hearing about all of the headaches with guests not understanding that their invite is limited to who is on the envelope - "& company" sounds cute as some PPs have mentioned, but I feel like you open yourself up to people assuming they can bring a whole crew, even if you specify elsewhere it's only for two. Up to you just my two cents! Good luck!

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  • Summer
    Super August 2018
    Summer ·
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    Just saw this comment - I feel like that's good as it still has the important part that people understand, just with a little extra. Good deal!

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  • MrsRies&Love
    VIP May 2018
    MrsRies&Love ·
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    I agree with a few PP...just use and guest! I think it's very clear and concise. Putting an extra indication on the RSVP card saying that you have reserved two seats for them is also a good idea.

    We did both of those things and it worked out beautifully!

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  • Mrs. Fall Bride
    Master October 2016
    Mrs. Fall Bride ·
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    Agreed!

    (stupid character minimum Smiley angry )

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