I am considering putting my best guy friend (The Will to my Grace) in my wedding as a bridesman - not a groomsman. What is the best way to do this? I don't want him walking arm & arm down the aisle with a groomsman like the bridesmaids but I don't want to single him out either. We are having a formal catholic wedding & I've considered having just as an usher and reader but I truly want him standing beside me. Any suggestions?