So I'm planning on doing a huge BBQ cookout for my reception since it's fourth of july weekend! We are having steak, chicken ribs, fish, mac and cheese, scalloped potatoes, spinach dip, corn bread, bbq beans, veggies, fruit, and salad. Our reception isn't super fancy, it's at our families clubhouse that opens out to the forest. It's very country rustic and comfy just how I like it. My question is as guest would you be ok with a cookout and a casual reception? I see all these weddings that are super fancy and I wonder!