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Kayla
Dedicated June 2018

Bartender tipping

Kayla, on November 10, 2017 at 12:23 PM Posted in Planning 0 15

I got my contract last night from our bartender and part of it asks us to choose if we want to let them have a tip jar or just pay the gratuity upfront prior to the wedding. Well I plan to pay the gratuity because it's obviously not my guests job to tip them. My question is how much do I tip? It's a open bar with beer wine and at least two signature drinks. It's $710 for two bartenders from 3 to 10 and we are providing the alcohol. They are providing soda and the cups and ice. I have found 20% but is that per bartender or do I split that? Thanks!

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Latest activity by Meg, on November 11, 2017 at 9:54 AM
  • Boinkin
    Devoted April 2018
    Boinkin ·
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    I think you could just do $75-$100 per bartender

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  • Kayla
    Dedicated June 2018
    Kayla ·
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    That's what I was thinking I just didn't want to tip low! Thank you!

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  • Future Mrs M
    Super June 2018
    Future Mrs M ·
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    We are doing $280. Our total, as of now, is 1400. That gives them 20%. There are 2 ladies and they will split it. Our total won't be final until we have total headcount, though.

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  • BoudreauToBe
    Master July 2018
    BoudreauToBe ·
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    I would do $100 each. The guests may still tip even though there is no tip jar (I always do).

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  • Abbie
    Devoted April 2018
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    Our bar contract asked if it was OK to have a tip jar out in ADDITION to the gratuity included in our cost. I thought that was rather odd - we're paying for an open bar, a 20% gratuity is included in our total cost...but you also want our guests to tip as well?

    We said no.

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  • Light Haired Girl
    Expert February 2018
    Light Haired Girl ·
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    20% of the total bill including the cost of alcohol. They will split it themselves. Keep in mind that even though there is no tip car, most are accustomed to giving the bartender $1-$2 per drink either way.

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  • Future Mrs M
    Super June 2018
    Future Mrs M ·
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    @Abbie .. the last wedding I was actually in.. same thing. The B&G even tipped an additional 10% BEFORE the reception just to ensure happy bartenders and good service.. they still put out the tip jar. They were furious.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Your guests will probably still slip the BTs a few bucks unless there is a little sign on the bar that says that tips have been taken care of. My more upscale venues do this.

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  • Candie56347
    Dedicated July 2018
    Candie56347 ·
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    I would just do 20% and let them split it.

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  • Emily
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    Emily ·
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    I would do 20% of the $710 and they can split it themselves (I do not think you need to include the cost of alcohol when you are calculating percentage as pp said, that's crazy).

    You are correct to tip them yourself and not allow a tip jar!

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  • Sagan
    Super July 2017
    Sagan ·
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    We paid our bartenders $200/each for 3:30-10:00

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  • Brianne
    Dedicated October 2018
    Brianne ·
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    20%

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  • I'mthemom
    November 2018
    I'mthemom ·
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    Please no too jar. (And I bartend weddings) Guests will tip. There’s not been a wedding in eight years that the guests didn’t tip. 20% is a good amount to tip your bartenders.

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  • July18Bride
    Super September 2022
    July18Bride ·
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    20%

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  • Meg
    Dedicated February 2018
    Meg ·
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    Is that normal to "tip upfront"? I'm all for tipping and everything , but what if they don't earn the tip? Like what if they don't even show, or don't bring enough ice or wear jeans or do a horrible job. Isn't a tip a way to show appreciation for good service?

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