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Just Said Yes September 2021

Barefoot Bride?

Bridget, on May 23, 2019 at 9:24 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 16

I'm thinking of wearing no shoes for my ceremony and maybe reception too. Our wedding isn't going to be on a beach, it'll most likely be at a barn wedding venue. Would it be weird to skip shoes? If I were to skip shoes, does that mean everyone else should too? I don't really like the thought of my fiance wearing no shoes with his outfit.

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Latest activity by Amber, on December 9, 2019 at 3:04 AM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    As a guest I would wonder why you weren’t wearing shoes. It would be extremely odd if everyone else went barefoot too.
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  • Kelly
    Champion October 2018
    Kelly ·
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    I would just worry about you stepping on something. I see wine glasses get broken accidentally all the time at weddings.
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  • Iva
    Super September 2019
    Iva ·
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    May I ask why?
    This is what comes to my mind: cold feet (no pun intended lol); rough floors, especially with a barn wedding - splinter alert; super dirty feet that then make the bottom of the dress dirty, if you accidentally step on it; FH accidentally stepping on your toes while dancing (ouch); and the best one - spending time scrubbing your feet at the end of the night, not the most fun activity for your wedding night lol.
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    Master January 2019
    Cassidy ·
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    I wore heels for the ceremony and was barefoot for the reception. I lost track of my flip flops and didn’t care enough to look for them.
    The only time it was noticeable was when we were being introduced and i held my dress up to walk. In the pics you can tell I don’t have anything on.
    I don’t necessarily think your FH would need to be bare foot just because you are. You dress will cover your feet.
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  • Nykole
    Expert October 2019
    Nykole ·
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    If your dress is long enough, no one would really notice. Your wedding party should probably wear shoes though. But hey, it’s YOUR wedding, so do what makes you comfortable and happy. I thought about walking barefoot, but I’m opting for a cute, comfy pair of white Keds instead. 😄 I could NEVER pull off heels and I wouldn’t dare try on my wedding day. I’m clumsy and they are NOT comfortable! Lol
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  • Jennifer
    Expert October 2019
    Jennifer ·
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    I went barefoot at my first wedding, but it was in a backyard and I had someone go over it that afternoon to pick up any stones or pinecones. I'd be worried about detritus on the floor of a barn or the immediate surroundings. If the ground is clear, though, and you're absolutely sure (and you have backup shoes and a first aid kit on hand), go for it, and no one else has to be barefoot as well. You can be the only one.
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  • Summerbride77
    VIP July 2019
    Summerbride77 ·
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    To add what previous posters have said. Make sure you check with your venue that they are good with you being barefoot. I've been at a few places that for everything Kelly said ask that guests keep their shoes on
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  • Heather
    Savvy June 2019
    Heather ·
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    I don't think anyone else needs to be barefoot just because you are. As the bride, you're already going to be standing out and wearing something different from everyone else.

    As for doing it outside of a beach wedding, I know my dress consultant suggested it as an option for my backyard wedding, so apparently it is done in other venues. I opted not to, because I worry about stepping on something. I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with it though, so if that's what you want to do, go for it!

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  • CDickman
    VIP September 2019
    CDickman ·
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    With a barn wedding I would worry about splinters.
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  • CourtneyBrittain
    Master August 2019
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    If you’re in a long dress I think very few people will notice though I think it’s slightly odd. Just my personal preference! If you’re in a short dress, I think it would be extremely odd. Again, my preference is shoes. Going barefoot just seems odd even at a beach ceremony in my opinion though
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  • Amanda
    Master December 2020
    Amanda ·
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    If you decide on this, I would at least suggest the foot jewelery people where to beach weddings. The ones that are a toe ring and anklet connected. So it's fancy still not just barefoot
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  • Jessica
    VIP June 2020
    Jessica ·
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    I am having a barn wedding and I will be barefoot for ceremony and reception! My mom made me barefoot sandals in our wedding colors (minus they gray) for myself and my girls to wear.

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  • Sinéad
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2025
    Sinéad ·
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    Hey Bridget! have you made a definite decision about going barefoot on your wedding day?

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    Just Said Yes September 2021
    Bridget ·
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    I haven't. The wedding isnt until 2021 so I still have quite a bit of time until I need to make a final decision.
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  • Amanda
    Just Said Yes May 2020
    Amanda ·
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    Do it! I will be going barefoot also. Partially for health reasons. But also for comfort, to be grounded and I usually end up barefoot at every wedding I am in anyways!
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  • Amber
    Super September 2020
    Amber ·
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    I'll most likely end up barefoot by reception times. Still have yet figure out what shoes I'll be wearing.
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