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Tilar Fifield
Devoted August 2019

Bam! 8-17-19 Non pro

Tilar Fifield, on August 23, 2019 at 11:20 AM Posted in Married Life 0 19
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WOW! That flew by FAST! Seriously... I always heard how fast your wedding day goes by and people were not joking!! I couldn’t believe it was over!
Overall everything went pretty dang smooth... we had one family cat fight (so embarrassing... oh my lord). But other than that no major emergencies.

The only little emergency I noticed was the DJ screwed up the music as I walked down the aisle, but ehh. Whatever! When it was all over I was thinking about it like “dude I literally gave you the seconds of the music... when to fade in and what not” but honestly who freakin cares. We didn’t have a videographer to capture it! 😂

Oh also... I had a very clear unplugged ceremony sign right in the entrance and I still had people take pictures 😑 I didn’t realize until they sent me the photos afterwards 😂 but whatever! I think it was only one person... but if you want an unplugged ceremony I would make sure there is an announcement made.


OH and ANOTHER THING... my MOH’s mother just came into the bridal suite before the ceremony because she “just had to see”. Like OMG NO THAT IS SO RUDE I CANNOT 😤 My MOH was like “omg mom get out” lol. But no, that is dang rude. I don’t care how long I’ve known you, if I don’t want visitors then I don’t want visitors.

he “big emergency”... my aunt tried telling my MIL how to seat my family 🤦🏼‍♀️ Basically our venue was all one room... the ceremony got flipped into the dance floor. Well there were only 60 seats for the ceremony and everyone else would have to sit at the reception tables (yeah I know, dumb) so my mom made sure my extended family knew their DINNER table number. My mistress of ceremonies told them they were able to sit up front ceremony space so they could actually hear, but apparently they didn’t listen. I guess they thought that was the table to sit at the whole time, so they just sat there and by the time they realized it the second row in the ceremony seating was taken by other guests. My aunt got pissed off and started trying to tell my MIL how things needed to go and freaked out about where my grandma was going to sit. What she didn’t know was were already had a plan for grandma and she was flipping her lid for no reason. I guess that is what happens when you don’t ask me about my wedding and any plans until they day of 🤷🏼‍♀️ So my MIL put her in her place 😬 My MIL was with me the ENTIRE planning process. From floral colors to the logistics of the day, so for my aunt to just come in on the dang wedding day and try to run the show (after they didn't listen to directions) was SO rude it makes me cringe. Sooo embarrassing to me.
But over all it was a great day! Besides the little cat fight 😂

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19 Comments

  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    Despite the mishaps, I'm glad everything ended up working out good! You look beautiful! Congratulations to you and your husband Smiley smile

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  • Tilar Fifield
    Devoted August 2019
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    Thank you so much Cher! They were very small mishaps (except for the cat fight 😂). Which no one wanted me to know but I could see it happening. My mom still doesn’t know I know 😬 But we really couldn’t have asked for a more beautiful day!
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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
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    Congratulations Smiley ring

    I'm sorry to hear you had a few hiccups, but it sounds like you took it all in stride!

    You looked beautiful Smiley laugh

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  • Melle
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    Congratulations !
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    Weddings really bring out the crazy in people. I'm happy you didn't let that ruin your day!

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  • Ivy ORP
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    I'm glad you had a wonderful day despite the mishaps. Congratulatoins to you both!

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  • Brittany
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    Sounds like a whirlwind of emotions but I am glad that everything turned out! Congratulations!!! You look so beautiful and happy!!

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  • Tilar Fifield
    Devoted August 2019
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    Thank you so much! I tried my hardest to just enjoy the moments.
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  • Tilar Fifield
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    LOTS of emotions! Lots of crying lol and everyone kept telling me not to cry and all I’m thinking is umm I’m getting married I’m going to cry 😂
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  • H
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    Congratulations! Glad you have a fantastic day regardless of the little emergencies!
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  • Tilar Fifield
    Devoted August 2019
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    Thank you so much! It really was a great day. We got lots of compliments on what a lovely wedding it was. Which made us feel so awesome because we worked so hard!
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  • KarenO
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    Congrats! It looks like it was a lovely day, despite the hiccups.

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  • Michaela
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    Sounds like you have an amazing MIL!! Congratulations girl!

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  • Tilar Fifield
    Devoted August 2019
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    Omg she is AMAZING! I got so lucky! I felt terrible though... she worked so hard with my husband and I to pull our wedding off and for someone to just waltz in and try to run the show... so rude!!!
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  • Laura
    Expert September 2019
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    Congrats! Your wedding looks like it was a great day despite the few mishaps. Idk what it is about weddings that make people go crazy lol

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  • Tilar Fifield
    Devoted August 2019
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    I have heard since that it’s not a wedding without a fight! 😂
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  • Andrea
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    So beautiful!! CongratulationsSmiley smile

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  • Sinéad
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2025
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    Congratulations to you both!!! Did you have a wonderful day?

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  • Tilar Fifield
    Devoted August 2019
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    Thank you so much! Overall yes it was a beautiful day! I just cannot believe how quickly it all flew by!
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