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Sarah
Savvy December 2017

Bad Luck?

Sarah, on March 1, 2017 at 8:36 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 29

So would it be considered "bad luck" to show a few wedding dresses to my fiancé? Meaning...showing him ones that are online not actually ON. & Do you believe that if they see you with the dress on before the wedding it's bad luck? #curious

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Latest activity by FutureMrsN, on March 2, 2017 at 1:20 PM
  • Britny
    VIP February 2017
    Britny ·
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    You don't need to add a hashtag, this is not twitter.

    I don't believe in bad luck so if you want to show him your dress go ahead. My H did not want to see it until I walked down the aisle so I didn't show him.

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  • Lynn
    Super April 2017
    Lynn ·
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    I showed my FH pictures of me in other contenders but not my actual dress. Its totally up to you. I don't consider it bad luck though

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  • T
    Just Said Yes December 2017
    Teylanna ·
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    I have switched my dresses , so I don't think that it is bad luck . I think it's kind of a tease to show them the dresses that you are interested in !!! I think that it will give him something to look forward too ... and it's nice to have his input as well because you guys will be sharing the big day together !

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  • M
    VIP March 2017
    Miss S. ·
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    It's not bad luck. The same way something old/new/borrowed/blue doesn't actually bring good luck. I think the tradition is fun, but nothing more.

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  • Sarah
    Savvy December 2017
    Sarah ·
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    Thanks ladies! Love all the quick feedback!

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  • Chica
    VIP October 2017
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    No bad luck. Its more tradition & personal choice. There is something exciting about surprising FH IMO. But, do as you choose.

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  • FutureMrsAF
    Super August 2017
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    I wanted to show FH! he wouldn't let me though Smiley sad he said the first time he wants to see it is when I'm walking down the aisle.. Cute, but I'm impatient.

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  • Dustin & Ariel
    Devoted August 2020
    Dustin & Ariel ·
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    I showed my FH all the dresses I tried on on me in a picture and he has seen my actual dress in the online pic because he didn't want to see me in it yet but then again, I doubt he even remembers it lol

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  • KatieJade
    Expert September 2018
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    My FH is like yours @FutureMrsAF he doesn't want to see anything that has to do with the dress

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  • Aylenrose
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    Aylenrose ·
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    Its supposed to be lol I wanted to show my FH but he was like no way! He wants to stick to tradition and not see until the ceremony.

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  • Alicia v.
    Super March 2017
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    I don't think it's bad luck but I did make sure he never saw

    A single dress picture because I wanted it to be a suprise

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  • Kels
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    Kels ·
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    I'm dying to show my FH a picture of my dress or at least pictures of me in reject dresses. However he really doesn't want me to, he keeps saying he wants the first time he sees me in a wedding dress to be when I'm walking down the aisle. Sweet yes, but it's killing me!

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  • Dreamer
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    I don't believe in bad luck, or superstitions.

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  • LB
    Champion November 2016
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    My H went dress shopping with us. Didn't remember the dress AT ALL the day of the wedding lol

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  • Tricia
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    Tricia ·
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    I showed my fiance pictures online, we went to Bridal shows and would talk about the dresses. I even showed him a pic of me in a dress (not THE dress). I even showed him my Pinterest board of dresses so he could see what I was liking (not that he cared, lol)

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  • Sasha
    Super April 2017
    Sasha ·
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    I showed mine dresses I liked but he hasn't seen mine that I'm actually wearing yet

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  • ColorMeBlu
    Super May 2018
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    I show my FH pictures of dresses all the time! I ask him what he likes and don't like.

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  • Nessanay
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    Nessanay ·
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    FH doesn't want to see me in a wedding dress until the day of. I changed dresses and was gonna show him the old one and he said he wants to wait. I don't think it's bad luck though, but I like the tradition.

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  • CoBoundAdv
    Expert October 2017
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    My FW was with me when I tried on several dresses. She has no idea which one I picked but I wanted to hear some of her opinions.

    I don't believe it's bad luck at all.

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  • Randi
    Dedicated April 2017
    Randi ·
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    I do not think it is bad luck, but I am keeping my dress a surprise because I think it will be fun. It is one of those 'to each their own' sort of things.

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