Hey ladies! For my wedding gown, I need a backless strapless bra. I'm a 34DDD. I was told alterations would alleviate the need to wear a bra, but the lace back of the dress gives too much. I have tried almost every sticky bra under the sun. Anyone have any experience with a product that actually works? Nordstrom, Macy's, and Dillard's all told me to tape the ladies...