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Pattie
Expert June 2020

Bachelorette question!

Pattie, on February 6, 2020 at 6:39 PM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 13

So what is everyone doing for their Bachelorette/ Hen party?


Big party/ clubbing/ glam?

More laid back spa day?

Wineries?


We are renting a cabin in the woods on a lake! We will do some hiking, jet skiing, and drinking! Smiley smile More low key for sure. Anyone do/doing something outrageous and fun? Did your bridesmaids keep it a secret or blow the surprise?

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Latest activity by Andrea, on February 14, 2020 at 8:50 AM
  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    For mine we did a day of activities. We went horseback trail riding and virtual reality gaming.
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  • Pattie
    Expert June 2020
    Pattie ·
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    OMG what a cool combo! How did you combine the two?

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I told my friends I'd love to go horseback riding. But I had no idea they'd plan virtual reality gaming after. I'm not into a stereotypical bachelorette of drinking and clubbing so this was much better to do something more memorable.
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  • Pattie
    Expert June 2020
    Pattie ·
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    Yeah I didn't want a typical bachelorette either. Im down for drinking, but I crave adventure more.

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    My advice then is to see what's on your personal bucket list! And see if everyone would be down for it aha e.g. not everyone is down for something like skydiving but ziplining for instance is more moderate.
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  • Lindsay
    Savvy October 2020
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    I love the cabin in the woods on a lake idea!
    I thought about that as well.

    My only struggle is that all of my bridesmaids live in different states! So, whatever I do, it will have to be a "destination" bachelorette party..... Ideally, I would love to rent a house on the beach. I am not to keen on the party scene..

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  • L
    Devoted August 2020
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    For the most part they have kept it pretty quiet! Once they booked it MOH told me it's a spa resort in a neighboring state and there will be other things planned! I'm so excited! My MOH has worked so hard to plan something amazing, I'm do grateful for her and all my ladies!
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  • Izzykern
    Super April 2021
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    My closest 3 friends gave me like 10 different locations in the US to choose from and I picked my top 3 and they are making a total surprise out of the weekend. I’m super excited for it to just be us 4 no matter what they plan!
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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
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    We did a long weekend in Savannah, GA. We did a haunted pub crawl, visited local breweries, went to the beach, and explored the city! It was not a surprise. I hate surprises lol. Mine was coed because I had bridesmen in my wedding and wanted to include them in everything! We had a lot of fun!!!
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  • Erin
    Beginner October 2020
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    I'm not into the whole bar scene, staying up late drinking so my bridesmaids asked for some ideas on what I wanted to do. At this point I think the game plan is to rent a cabin/house go for a hike and then go to a wine tasting/dinner. I also through out a yoga class and then beach day or something low key like that. I'm not sure if they are going to keep the actual plans a secret or not since they have some ideas, but I'm excited to see what ends up happening!

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    I went to Palm Springs. The girls rented a house with a pool for the weekend. Night one we went out for sushi, then went to bars, day two we went on a hike, went to brunch, came back and hung out by the pool, they surprised me with an at home massage, we ate snacks all day, then went out at night for a nice dinner and drag queen show, then out to bars after. It was super fun! I knew most the plans but a few things were surprises.

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  • Rebelle Fleur
    Master July 2021
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    I plan on going to Vegas two weeks before the wedding for 3/4 days. And then the day before the wedding spending the morning getting my nails done and then all the bridesmaids go to a spa for the afternoon.
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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
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    We're doing a weekend in Toronto at an Airbnb. Classy dinner, manis/pedis, and mainly staying inside the AirBNB playing board games, cards, watching movies. Super chill stuff like that. Drinking, yeah!

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