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Savvy September 2015

Bachelorette Party!!

Sasha, on June 18, 2015 at 10:47 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 32
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I am officially at the 100 day count down!

I am starting to think about my bachelorette party- I've been to a couple myself and I've seen the typical male strippers and bar scenes in movies, but I'm not sure what to expect for my own! I trust my girls to put together something fun and exciting together, but I feel like it is so different being the bride as opposed to being a guest at a bachelorette party. For those of you that have had your bachelorette parties, what was it like?!

Share your experiences and stories!

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Latest activity by Shannon & Joseph, on June 26, 2015 at 10:08 AM
  • Snarky
    Master September 2014
    Snarky ·
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    I had a simple one. We drank wine and played naughty games and ate p3nis shaped food.. Just my style!

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  • Sasha
    Savvy September 2015
    Sasha ·
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    @ Snarky LOL sounds like my style too!

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  • kaylarae
    Master April 2015
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    My bridesmaids and I went to a pro football game on the Friday night and then Saturday we had other girl friends join us for dinner followed by a pole dancing class and drinks.

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  • MrsPope
    Master September 2015
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    Date twin!!! 96 days to gooo!!! My bach party will be August 21-23 in ATL!! I can't wait.

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  • OGSue
    Master August 2016
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    I've only ever been to one bachlorette party, it was a weekend affair. The first night we had a slumber party, played games and ate junk food; the second day we had breakfast and then jetted out to Montreal (2.5 hour drive), we went to an indoor rollerskate rink, dinner, and then a male strip club, spent the night at the hotel and then left the next morning back home. Personally it was a bit much for me, it was costly and not really my thing (mainly the strip club). I'm hoping to make mine a dinner thing followed by a slumber party.

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  • kalamityjen
    VIP August 2015
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    Mines next weekend! I told my sister absolutely no stripper. I think we may go wine tasting and or to a spa. She told me to bring a bathing suit and something cute but comfortable to wear.

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  • Shauna
    VIP May 2015
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    For my bachlorette party we went to dinner, pre-gamed at my house with some drinks then went to a country bar and did some line dancing. Smiley smile I had a blast.

    Over the weekend I went to my friends bachlorette party. We had dinner, surprised her with a stripper (that was interesting!) and then went to a drag show and danced the night away. It all depends on what you like! Smiley smile

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  • Emily O.
    VIP June 2016
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    Whoever is planning your bachelorette should consult you before planning certain activities. I personally don't want the big stripper, bar scene for my bachelorette party because that isn't me and never has been me. If I totally left my bachelorette party up to my sister without offering my opinion, that is exactly how our night would go. I really just want a weekend trip somewhere or wine tasting and a trip to a spa. To me that's more memorable and fun than going to a strip club and a bunch of bars and getting totally shwasted.

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  • Genny
    Master May 2015
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    I didn't have one but I would have wanted dinner and then going out to a bar. Wouldn't really want strippers either

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  • Tania Lynn
    Super July 2015
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    Mine is this Saturday. We are all headed to a Jimmy Buffett concert. I'm a total parrothead so I am beyond excited to share this with my girls. And I fall square into the no stripper/peni club. That was my only request.

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  • annakay511
    Master July 2015
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    If there's anything you're not comfortable with (like strippers) be sure to let your BM know that! My bachelorette is in a few weeks. We are having it 2 weeks before the wedding, which is a little closer to the wedding than I would have liked, but that was the date that worked best for everyone. I am thankful that all of my BMs and close friends are able to make it, even though some of my best friends are mothers of 2! We are going away for a beach weekend. The beach is pretty much my favorite place, I am so excited to lay out on the beach and relax with my girls, and get dressed up and go out like our college days!

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  • OG Ruth
    Master October 2015
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    We're having a sex toy party for my bachelorette. Afterwards, we're going to my MOH's house drinks. FSIL is upset that we're not going bar hopping. Oh well, she'll get over it.

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  • Michele Spadaro
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    Greetings, Hubby-to-Be and I had a combined Bachelor & Bachelorette Party at a local Comedy Club. It was fun time, with everyone together. But it's not for everyone, of course!

    Sincerely, Michele, Jersey Shore

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  • pinguino
    VIP September 2015
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    I've never been to a bach party, but mine is planned for August 8th. My MOH booked a hotel at a casino. We plan to check in and have dinner, then MOH will be the DD to drive us to a strip club and back. Then we plan to bar hop and gamble all night. I can't wait!

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  • FormerUser
    Master July 2015
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    Mine is this weekend. We're going to the beach! That's it! :-)

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  • Glenda
    Master October 2013
    Glenda ·
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    We went to one of those inexpensive foot massage places--hour massage is around $35. They gave us a room and allowed us to bring in our own snacks and wine. Half went for massages first and the other half went after them. Then we went back to a friend's to hang out since she'd just renovated her basement. She went crazy at Party City, I think, buying pink & black bachelorette party decorations!

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  • Brenda
    Super September 2015
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    Mine is also a surprise but I trust my BFF who is planning the weekend in Charleston. I went to college with her so she knows I'm down for anything. Everyone has told me they're so excited for the activities and can't wait! I know for sure we're going to the beach and I'm having a lingerie shower (she asked my sizes). I can't wait! It's August 21-23. Smiley smile

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  • Nattie
    Super October 2015
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    Mine will be a surprise too, which is kinda nice because no one has mentioned very much. The only things I know are that it will be in Milwaukee, they got a hotel and bought special shirts and we will be going to one of my favorite bars there. It will be August 29, can't wait Smiley laugh

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  • Chantel
    Master July 2016
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    I've been to a lot of Bachelorette parties that involved drinking and strippers. My cousin's was at a mall and we did a scavenger hunt and had dinner. Then I got my nose pierced LOL. I really want mine to be small and low key. A weekend in Banff or something watching wedding movies, maybe some magic mike and candy!

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  • Promike
    Master September 2015
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    Yay date twin!!! I had my Bachelorette party in Vegas for the weekend....and you know what they say, "what happens there, stays there!" LOL Just kidding! We partied hard, went to the Hunk Mansion (male strip club) that picked us up in a limo then took us back to the hotel afterwards. We laid at the pool the whole day Saturday then went out to a nice rooftop dance club on Saturday night. We had a lot of nice dinners during the weekend and also did a little shopping on Sunday. It was a mini vacation for all of us (bach parties are good excuses to get out of town without the boys) and we had a ton of fun! I would say do exactly what YOU feel comfortable with. My friends and I are pretty liberal and we are from Portland, OR so the strip club was nothing new or out of the ordinary for us.

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