So my moh contacted everyone six months ago to determine duties. My moh is my sister and her and my aunt who is my matron were handling the bridal shower this Sunday. My other two bridesmaids said they would do the bachelorette party. Fast forward with two month to go I have heard nothing abt the bachelorette party. So I text them to see if they at least have a date in mind. One of them text back that they dont have money and we could do a paint and sip at her sisters house.
Now these are supposed to be my bffs. I asked them to be in the wedding December 2018. I understand the money issue. But why not speak up sooner abt it? Also it seems like unless I asked they werent going to bring it up?! Unfortunately this is there regular. Anything having to do with me, they never have money.
I just feel like no planning went into the bachelorette party. Like it was an afterthought. I'm very hurt by this. My moh and sil are now planning the bachelorette party. But for me it's the principle of it. Btw the second bm never even responded.